"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Tips for a 25 y/o guy dating a 20 y/o girl

the freshmaker

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im 25 and i was talking to this girl whos phone number i recently got. i suggested going out and getting a drink sometime, when she said shes only 20 years old (and cant drink here in the US)

since i turned 21, ive only been dating 21+ girls (unintentionally), so its been a while since i couldnt go out to bars with girls.

any tips or suggestions on getting these younger girls to open up? (im not trying to be her BF, just have fun. im pretty sure she feels the same way too)

thanks
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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amoka

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Order her water while you sip on your Captain Morgan.
 
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