"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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preface;

i)- dress your best, shave, and style yourself tip -top ; look the best you can before you ever go out.

ii) - stay positive no matter what don't batter your self-esteem/value and subsequently your confidence

iii)- use mental imagery and positive affirmations bodybuilding to raise your confidence if your conf needs it


A) EYE CONTACT:

first try to establish some eye contact. and guage her expression it is sub-scious and its the truth the very
first expression .

- shes' attracted smiles back

- she's returns your contact

- she looks away

- no EC

B) APPROACH:

POOK says " give unsolicited positive advice".. Its not so much what you say that matters
but how your say it that matters. You want to lower your voice, speak softly, direct and
just imagine yourself as the owner of this club, the DOn, the PIMP. Like I said its not what
you say , but how you say it that matters. 95 % is the body language. THE DIRECT MACK APPRoach. ESTablish your authority over her.

read her FACE like a book :( also useful for keeping the conv going) 95 % of her communication will be from there.

- shes leans into you, asks you questions back

- shes gives 1 word answers or mumbles away ( drop it, save your enegery)

- not much of a response

C) THE GAME:

YOu can only really play when its the first case where there is a "GAME TO PLAY" the "GAME IS ON". Save your energy and drop the one without much interest.


Try to make the convo really good ( HUMOR light hearted) , sync your mood, mirror her body language, if the convo went well ( my personal take "the 3 minute mack line" then you should try to get the number.

Now what happens next , its a personal perference, theres no hard core rule to follow, some call immediately some call like three days later. Its all a matter of personal perference, but eventually you want to dial her up and make some small talk and her out to an action date like pool, skating or something FUN and not serious etc.

( TO BE CONTINUED)


NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS, no matter HOW BADLY YOU FAIL, NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS, NEVER GIVE UP YOUR MANILINESS.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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