"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Tip on dancing in clubs

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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especially when they are dressed red! Respect
 

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-gtfo i want to see you dance like that at the club
 

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Type Milton Crobar...

And watch the video On youtube..

THATS HOW YOU DANCE IN A CLUB

Or you can type me
SLICK in PACHA
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Deus ex Pianoforte said:
Awesome. Why are YouTubers so freakin' racist, though?
Who said I'm a racist, lol, why are people Colored people alwayse saying people are racists. Perhaps these accusations should be turned around too?
 

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dancing requires many bodily agility components

1. the hip motion
2. the swaying of the arms
3. the bobbing of the head
 

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Microphone Fiend said:
^^^^
http://youtube.com/watch?v=pHecHAcHi9o

is how you dance to house music in the club imo
Ye its good, but the if you got that many wingmen as this guy(as you saw in the video he had like 20 :crackup:) and you can make them dance with you like that, then you know he's an SUPER DJ. :up: :D
 

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I just don't feel comfortable dancing in clubs, so I don't do it. Contrary to what you'll hear regurgitated around here, it's not the essential piece to putting your game together.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Luscious said:
Contrary to what you'll hear regurgitated around here, it's not the essential piece to putting your game together.
yeah, but it's kinda fun. And it's like a pick-up exercise.

Good job staying away from the hor realm, tho!
 
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Luscious said:
I just don't feel comfortable dancing in clubs, so I don't do it. Contrary to what you'll hear regurgitated around here, it's not the essential piece to putting your game together.
What... wrong! You are 1000 better off on the dance floor than watching like the other insecure AFCs. Chicks dig guys who grind... it's a club!
 
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