"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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TIP : look at things from their perspective

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If you're talking to a HB and she asks you what your birthday is (this is generally a clear sign of interest, so you can rest assured that you meet her standards for physical attraction by now)... do NOT tell her your birthday.

Let me let you in on one of womankinds biggest secrets. It's called Astrology. 95% of guys have absolutely no interest in Astrology... for most of us it's just garbage you hear about on daytime talk shows or maybe we'll read our horroscope but it means about as much to us as the psychic insight found in a fortune cookie... but most women take astrology very seriously. They usually become obsessed about finding "mr. right" by the time they are in their early 20's and need some kind of magic answer as to what to look for.

Astrology gives women answers about love in the same way that religion gives people answers about life and the afterlife. It paints a pretty clear picture, and many women will actually turn a guy down because they don't like the characteristics of his sign (and how they correlate with hers).

I would recommend learning as much about Astrology so that you know what your dealing with here. A lot of the girls that I'm friends with are obsessed with it, so I've been finding out a lot of stuff lately. I did some research earlier today, and already feel like I have a better understanding of how women think. Give it a shot.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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you might be right about this.

The other day i was out on a date with this girl, she asked my age..then eventually to my D.O.B.

Then we started talking about zodiac signs...and down the line she asked if i was "picky" to reflect on the nature of my sign. I just told her, well from what you've seen of me, what's your take on it? I guess she wanted to find out more about me.

Anyway yea a lot of women are suckers for zodiac signs/chinese signs/psychic/tarot cards. Probably this applies to the more "picky" type of girls.
 

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Originally posted by ScrewIt
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Anyway yea a lot of women are suckers for zodiac signs/chinese signs/psychic/tarot cards.
Yes, I hate all that sh!t. When they start into all that sh!t, I quickly discount it all and thell them it's all B.S
 
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