"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Get a myspace. they're free and easy to set up. you got that? now get networked with ur friends. easy stuff, just ask them for links to theirs and request friendship. now can start meeting girls from out of state. i have a couple girls out west, some in the north, and one in britain.

leave a comment saying something like "ur not too bad, whats ur aim?". now technically ur not supposed to spend a lot of time on aim talking to girls, but since these are girls u'll never meet, who cares! now u can sharpen your conversation skills without fear of coming off like an idiot. do something stupid? block them and find more out of state girls.

i find this makes me more comfortable with talking to hot girls and much better at making conversation out of nothing. pretty soon u can get as far as having girls seriously fall for you just over conversation. just apply c&f and keep ur mindset of a player, and it's easy.

u got nothing to lose!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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That's good, except for the fact that it is online and not a representation of anything that will happen in real life.
 
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i see what your saying.....its more like tricking guys to be more confident, when they starrt getting godd reactions from the girls on the net, they will have more confidence in real life.. nice for the insecure guys (NOT ME)
 
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talking to girls online will not help your conversation skills at all. if anything, it will reduce them. being able to think of clever things to say in a 1-2 minute time frame is nothing like talking in person. also, there are some things you will be able to say online, and will not dare to say in person, hence less use of C&F. false confidence is worse than being lucky.
 
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I kinda agree with danno.... realize that if you are a begginner completly unfirmilar with c+f then talking to girls online that you will never meet can be a good practice (or at least a start). However for our more expirenced djs this is not neccissary or really helpful, but for begginners it could be good.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Well I talk online to girls that I don't know all the time. If you have nothing else to do then it is fun, but I really rather talk to real chicks. but it helps the confidence for newbie's.
 
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wow Javelin is one of the most negative posters ive seen!
 
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ive seen the light and theres so much incorrect info on these boards, its also contradcting what a DJ represents
 
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Javelin is right. There is so much crap on this board. Lots of people don't understand what it is to be a DJ. I recomend reading the book of shuma gora in the bible because the writer understands DJism totally. If you want a copy of it from me, I will give you it. The one in the bible is an .EXE and my copy is alot smaller but the same.
 
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Originally posted by Javelin44
talking to girls online will not help your conversation skills at all. if anything, it will reduce them. being able to think of clever things to say in a 1-2 minute time frame is nothing like talking in person. also, there are some things you will be able to say online, and will not dare to say in person, hence less use of C&F. false confidence is worse than being lucky.
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wow Javelin is one of the most negative posters ive seen!
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No, he's correct. AIM is the worst form of communication today, and talking on AIM for the sake of sharpening your social skills is pretty rediculous when you think about it.

MySpace is useful, though, for meeting people IN your area so that you can make new connections and REALLY help your social skills.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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forgot about this thread. yeah i wouldnt perscribe it to an experienced dj like myself, but if ur really nervous around girls it'll help. after all, what have you got to lose?

btw...javelin criticizes everything i post. lol o well.
 
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Danno I disagree with you. Talking to girls online may be fun or you may be think it's helping you. So let's say you say some really slick stuff online, thing is if you ever do meet them (doubt it) it will be so much more different. Instead of making a myspace, go to some public place and actually talk to people. Be sure not to say "lol" outloud, you will sound like a dumbass :p
 
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