TDOT
Don Juan
We have all been there at some point. You ask for the number and get rejected. Just because a girl doesn't give you the number on your first shot does not always mean that you should not try again. Let me repeat that. Just because you don't get her number on the first shot does not always mean you will never get it.
You should ALWAYS ask at least twice for a girl's number before giving up and here are two GOOD reasons listed below why, but there are many other reason such as: she has a boyfriend who's not present at the moment but her girls are around and she's worried that they'll go and tell him because they like him and want their shot, or maybe she has ended the relationship now, people's situations change often. You won't know unless you go back and ask again!
reason #1) Some girls just want to test you to see how much spine you have. To see if you actually have the balls to approach a second time after getting chopped down.
reason #2) Some girls just want to see how much you are really interested in them personally, or if you are just simply playing the
"numbers game" trying to rack up as many as you can.
Because they feel bad when a hot dude asks for their digits and he never calls. [side note: you can immediately say after being rejected the first time, "I know how bad you feel when hot guys get your digits and don't ever call. I promise you I'm not one of those guys, so write down your lucky 7 cutie".]
So how do you handle the 2nd time around??
Well, wait until she thinks you have forgot all about the incident,
this of course involves you keeping in contact with her on a regular basis and talking about things other than getting her number. Doing this also shows that you are cool about the whole rejection bit.
Then go back to her and regardless as to whatever excuse she gave the first time, simply say:
"Are you ready to give me your number now?"
[give her a wink and smile as you ask]
If you don't get it on the second try then she probably really isn't interested in you.
But if you do, and you probably WILL then, the lesson here is persistance does pay off.
You should ALWAYS ask at least twice for a girl's number before giving up and here are two GOOD reasons listed below why, but there are many other reason such as: she has a boyfriend who's not present at the moment but her girls are around and she's worried that they'll go and tell him because they like him and want their shot, or maybe she has ended the relationship now, people's situations change often. You won't know unless you go back and ask again!
reason #1) Some girls just want to test you to see how much spine you have. To see if you actually have the balls to approach a second time after getting chopped down.
reason #2) Some girls just want to see how much you are really interested in them personally, or if you are just simply playing the
"numbers game" trying to rack up as many as you can.
Because they feel bad when a hot dude asks for their digits and he never calls. [side note: you can immediately say after being rejected the first time, "I know how bad you feel when hot guys get your digits and don't ever call. I promise you I'm not one of those guys, so write down your lucky 7 cutie".]
So how do you handle the 2nd time around??
Well, wait until she thinks you have forgot all about the incident,
this of course involves you keeping in contact with her on a regular basis and talking about things other than getting her number. Doing this also shows that you are cool about the whole rejection bit.
Then go back to her and regardless as to whatever excuse she gave the first time, simply say:
"Are you ready to give me your number now?"
[give her a wink and smile as you ask]
If you don't get it on the second try then she probably really isn't interested in you.
But if you do, and you probably WILL then, the lesson here is persistance does pay off.
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