"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Tip - Get her number while on her cellphone

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We have all been there. You see a hottie sitting there in the corner all by herself on her cellphone. You want to talk to her, but you don't want to be rude either. So you wait around for a little while, she's still on it, so you decide to leave.
Now you feel like a loser. And you should because you made an AFC decision.

Never feel like that again!
These girls are so easy to number close its crazy. Its not like you have to wonder if she has a phone, she's on it for flippin sakes.

So this is what you do.
We all know the player number close.
That's where you are passing her, don't have much time to talk, briefly chat with her then say "Sorry I've got to get going, give me your number so we can continue this later."

Well you take that approach and turn it around.

[walk up to the hottie on her phone and say]

"Excuse me I see that you are busy and I don't want to disturb you now but I have something to ask you, type your number in my cell and I'll give you a call later"

Call her that day, or else she might forget you since the encounter was so brief.

When you call her you can say:

Hi I'm TDOT the guy who talked to you while you were on the phone. I just wanted to know if you thought I was cute.



Its just that simple.
 
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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S0LID

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Has this worked for you??
 
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Billasec

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seems way too risky, most girls on there cellys dont give any eye contact.

is this tested?
 

skeeloo

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i dont think i really agree with this. try it first yourself then give us the feedback,lol-
i know if im on an important phone call and someone interupts me i would flip.
and yes girls on cell phones do give eye contacts in my opinon i dont approach until they are bold enough to get of the phone. some of them stand there talking and expect you to approach, thats just stupid. or you could give them a smile or a nod, maybe that'll get them to hang up. iv never tried it before. one day i will.
 

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i have tryed it yesterday on a chick.. it worked very simple.. she just wrote her number. after i walked, i was watching her to see if she is talking and i gave her a call... it was occupied.. that means it was the good number.

i tested only once so can`t say anything about the succes rate.. i will hunt more chicks on the phone in the street :D
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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DJHoolahoop

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I'm sure they'll think you're rude for interupting them to hook up. If not, they're probably more interested in the conversation than to really give you the time of day. Chances are they'll do it to get you off their backs.

and as another person stated, have you had any luck with this?
 

I-am-someone

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Sounds pretty lame...
But, nevertheless I believe it could work. If a chick likes you, she'll do just about anything.
 
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