"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Tip - Get her number while on her cellphone

TDOT

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We have all been there. You see a hottie sitting there in the corner all by herself on her cellphone. You want to talk to her, but you don't want to be rude either. So you wait around for a little while, she's still on it, so you decide to leave.
Now you feel like a loser. And you should because you made an AFC decision.

Never feel like that again!
These girls are so easy to number close its crazy. Its not like you have to wonder if she has a phone, she's on it for flippin sakes.

So this is what you do.
We all know the player number close.
That's where you are passing her, don't have much time to talk, briefly chat with her then say "Sorry I've got to get going, give me your number so we can continue this later."

Well you take that approach and turn it around.

[walk up to the hottie on her phone and say]

"Excuse me I see that you are busy and I don't want to disturb you now but I have something to ask you, type your number in my cell and I'll give you a call later"

Call her that day, or else she might forget you since the encounter was so brief.

When you call her you can say:

Hi I'm TDOT the guy who talked to you while you were on the phone. I just wanted to know if you thought I was cute.



Its just that simple.
 
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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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S0LID

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Has this worked for you??
 
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Billasec

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seems way too risky, most girls on there cellys dont give any eye contact.

is this tested?
 

skeeloo

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i dont think i really agree with this. try it first yourself then give us the feedback,lol-
i know if im on an important phone call and someone interupts me i would flip.
and yes girls on cell phones do give eye contacts in my opinon i dont approach until they are bold enough to get of the phone. some of them stand there talking and expect you to approach, thats just stupid. or you could give them a smile or a nod, maybe that'll get them to hang up. iv never tried it before. one day i will.
 

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i have tryed it yesterday on a chick.. it worked very simple.. she just wrote her number. after i walked, i was watching her to see if she is talking and i gave her a call... it was occupied.. that means it was the good number.

i tested only once so can`t say anything about the succes rate.. i will hunt more chicks on the phone in the street :D
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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DJHoolahoop

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I'm sure they'll think you're rude for interupting them to hook up. If not, they're probably more interested in the conversation than to really give you the time of day. Chances are they'll do it to get you off their backs.

and as another person stated, have you had any luck with this?
 

I-am-someone

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Sounds pretty lame...
But, nevertheless I believe it could work. If a chick likes you, she'll do just about anything.
 
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