"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Tip for High Schoolers!!

Sir Psycho Sexy

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When perusing a young lady...
dont forget the power her best friend has over her

If her friend approves of you=encourage and talks you up

If her friend disapproves of you=discourages and talks bad about you

You are a fool if you think the best friend cant make or break you. Because she DOES have that power and she WILL use it. A girl friend will either build up your social proof or tear it down, all behind the scenes of course!

So become friends with her friends and you will reap the benefits!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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War Against Betaism

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It's true. Especially in high school where girls are worried about other people's opinions a bit more than their own. Even if the girl really really liked you but her friends don't approve, she'll try to convince herself that you aren't the one for her (or if she really really was into you she'll ditch her friends). On the other hand even if she wasn't really into you, but her friends absolutely love you, she'll convince herself to try and like you. Obviously you should aim to have her be attracted to you, but the power of bestfriends opinions is a powerful tool.
 

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Good post, unless the girl in question is a hb2 with no friends :D
 
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