"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Tip for High Schoolers!!

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Sir Psycho Sexy

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When perusing a young lady...
dont forget the power her best friend has over her

If her friend approves of you=encourage and talks you up

If her friend disapproves of you=discourages and talks bad about you

You are a fool if you think the best friend cant make or break you. Because she DOES have that power and she WILL use it. A girl friend will either build up your social proof or tear it down, all behind the scenes of course!

So become friends with her friends and you will reap the benefits!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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War Against Betaism

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It's true. Especially in high school where girls are worried about other people's opinions a bit more than their own. Even if the girl really really liked you but her friends don't approve, she'll try to convince herself that you aren't the one for her (or if she really really was into you she'll ditch her friends). On the other hand even if she wasn't really into you, but her friends absolutely love you, she'll convince herself to try and like you. Obviously you should aim to have her be attracted to you, but the power of bestfriends opinions is a powerful tool.
 
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Good post, unless the girl in question is a hb2 with no friends :D
 
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