Zerotwoonenine
Senior Don Juan
what i mean different here is: culture, social background, age. This is the 3 topic that i want to enlightend u with 2day.
Culture: my girlfriend is english, i am chinese. Now there is alot of difference between our cultures, especially since i moved to england at the age of 11. If you are in another country which you werent born into, my tip is, go on the internet and search for the etiquette, table manners, cultural interest etc, gain as much knowledge as u can about the culture u r in so when you date a girl from that culture, you know how they work because cultural back grounds influence people alot. The area you have to read are how people behave towards each other in that culture etc. for e.g, in some cultures people talk loudly towards each other when enjoying each others company, so if you girl is asian or latino, chances are she will give a laugh that horrifies you or talks loudly, give her certain leeway on this point, or if its the other way round, its best to adapt and change yourself to that culture. Also notice what is acceptable in that culture and their social values, that is very important.
Age: i have found that in most situations, girls below the age of 16 doesnt want a serious relationship and they just want to have fun, so if you are 17 and above and you date a girl whos 16.5and below, dont expect her to commite as much as girsl who are 16.5+, dunno y but they go through a big brain procedure or something after 16.5, so if shes 16, stay patient.
social back ground or class: if you two are in the same culture, its quite easy, but if you are from differnt culture and differnt back group, this could be quite a tough one. If you are in the same culture and if shes in high class(more pocket money, good grades, good behaviour, stick parents etc) you can pretty much assume that she is in middle to higher class, now this wont be a problem till you start dating, her life will be controled by her parents so dont expect late night out and see her more than 3 times a week(my parents are stict so i know,but i am a guy so i can rebel, plus i am 17), these are small problems, if you are below her social backgound, it will go against u with her parents, so becareful when u meet them, wear something nice.
If she is from differnt culture, tough, adapt.
hope this will help u when u get in to this situation, these are from my personal experience. Even if u r not, memorise this cause sooner or later, girls from other cultures will get you staring. Give me a rep by the way.
Culture: my girlfriend is english, i am chinese. Now there is alot of difference between our cultures, especially since i moved to england at the age of 11. If you are in another country which you werent born into, my tip is, go on the internet and search for the etiquette, table manners, cultural interest etc, gain as much knowledge as u can about the culture u r in so when you date a girl from that culture, you know how they work because cultural back grounds influence people alot. The area you have to read are how people behave towards each other in that culture etc. for e.g, in some cultures people talk loudly towards each other when enjoying each others company, so if you girl is asian or latino, chances are she will give a laugh that horrifies you or talks loudly, give her certain leeway on this point, or if its the other way round, its best to adapt and change yourself to that culture. Also notice what is acceptable in that culture and their social values, that is very important.
Age: i have found that in most situations, girls below the age of 16 doesnt want a serious relationship and they just want to have fun, so if you are 17 and above and you date a girl whos 16.5and below, dont expect her to commite as much as girsl who are 16.5+, dunno y but they go through a big brain procedure or something after 16.5, so if shes 16, stay patient.
social back ground or class: if you two are in the same culture, its quite easy, but if you are from differnt culture and differnt back group, this could be quite a tough one. If you are in the same culture and if shes in high class(more pocket money, good grades, good behaviour, stick parents etc) you can pretty much assume that she is in middle to higher class, now this wont be a problem till you start dating, her life will be controled by her parents so dont expect late night out and see her more than 3 times a week(my parents are stict so i know,but i am a guy so i can rebel, plus i am 17), these are small problems, if you are below her social backgound, it will go against u with her parents, so becareful when u meet them, wear something nice.
If she is from differnt culture, tough, adapt.
hope this will help u when u get in to this situation, these are from my personal experience. Even if u r not, memorise this cause sooner or later, girls from other cultures will get you staring. Give me a rep by the way.
, j/k