"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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tip for cleaning shoes

penkitten

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tip for cleaning shoes and car dashboards:

buy some generic baby wipes and use them. they work great.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Really?

Hmmm..maybe I will...they won't damage my $400 italian leather?

:D
 

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Originally posted by Xericx
Really?

Hmmm..maybe I will...they won't damage my $400 italian leather?

:D
i have never owned a 400 dollar pair of shoes and i have no clue, however baby wipes have never ruined the regular leather on my regular shoes.
baby wipes do contain a small amount of alcohol in some brands, so you might wanna check that out .
 

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Does that work good for faux leather as well?

Mine are cracking, so repair is more what I need...
 

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Originally posted by ethnomethodologist
Does that work good for faux leather as well?

Mine are cracking, so repair is more what I need...
yes but it wont repair the cracking, so when you get new shoes, start off the bat by cleaning them with the wipes.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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baby wipes work well if your shoes have gotten dirty within the day. Otherwise i recommend a basic shoe cleaning kit, it will run you the same amount of money.

Your dashboard is another issue. When I worked at an exotic car company we used a damp felt rag and oil soap. It softens the leather and gives the car a good scent.

These days I'm using a quality steam cleaner with a precsion nossel for both.
 
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