"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Tinnitus?

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This Saturday (about 3/4 days ago) I was at a bar watching some bands play. It was a closed environment and I was really close to the speakers; when I noticed, I had been there for over 3 hours.

So, I get out of there, my audition slightly muffled. It gets better the following days, but as of now the ringing sound in my ears is still to go away; I only notice it when I'm in silence (like when I'm bed, or working in the computer). It seems like this may be tinnitus.

Should I wait a few more days and give my ears a 'rest'? Or have my ears had enough time to recover and I should check with a doctor ASAP?

Damn; I hope this crap goes away. Lesson learned, no more loud venues or rehearsals without ear plugs. Ever.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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"Tinnitus is not itself a disease but a symptom resulting from a range of underlying causes, including ear infections, foreign objects or wax in the ear, and injury from loud noises." - Wikipedia

just put a fan on at night. You won't notice the ringing.
 

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I've had tinnitus for about 6 years from exposure to loud noise. I was told by a doctor that acute tinnitus can take up to two weeks to go away, and if it's not gone by then, well, you're stuck with it. But 4 days is a long time--it would be very rare and lucky for it to go away now. There's no treatment or cure, unfortunately. I actually don't have any hearing loss, which is rare, but most cases do. If you go to a doctor they're probably just going to tell you that you have to deal with it for the rest of your life.

I know, it sucks. But it sure will teach you to be more careful with your hearing.
 

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Suicide said:
I know, it sucks. But it sure will teach you to be more careful with your hearing.
Yeah, definitely.

I didn't relate this with the ringing in my ears, but now I'm starting to think there may be a connection. The day after the gig I was dizzy (as if I was drunk) and nauseated. The dizziness went away, but I'm still nauseated to this day; in fact, I have barely eaten since Saturday night.

I was to see a doctor, but the goddamn urgencies service closed in my town a few months ago. Meaning that if this persists I'll either have to wait for an appointment with my doctor or visit the nearest city.

Sucks.
 
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