"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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LJBFB

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I have had some moderate success with other online dating, but nothing with tinder. I've been using it a while and match often, but never even met anyone. Is it just a joke? All AWs? In the least it requires a slightly different game.
I heard that people got better results from it last year and I never see anyone hear talk about it.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Alvafe

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problem with tinder is you need to have a reall good pic on it to invite woman and need be very good with texting to make her feel confortable enough to want to meet you, course a crazy and horny enough girl with a okish looks(or new in the city) will be easier to get something, but I pbet most are just for the how many msg she can get.

I call the tinder a meat market, as long you show you are good enough for what she will want you can get something, but serious I find it a lot more work then going out with girls
 

mrRuckus

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It's a load of ass and if you have the patience to deal with women completely incapable of conversation or being interesting then you are a saint.
 

Çharismo

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Social media is all bullsh!t including "tinder".

I just have a Facebook account that I use to stay up to date with what's new and hip. Stay away from all this crap it's a waste of time. :kick:
 

LJBFB

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I'd delete my Facebook if I didn't need it to Tinder. .. I hate social media, but I'm a good looking guy who is shy. It is here to stay, so I have to adapt and learn. I find it hard to talk to the same girl over several days and get responses as opposed to okc. Then I tried being more aggressive without luck either. I'm on somewhat of an okc quick lay streak too.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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