"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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LJBFB

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I have had some moderate success with other online dating, but nothing with tinder. I've been using it a while and match often, but never even met anyone. Is it just a joke? All AWs? In the least it requires a slightly different game.
I heard that people got better results from it last year and I never see anyone hear talk about it.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Alvafe

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problem with tinder is you need to have a reall good pic on it to invite woman and need be very good with texting to make her feel confortable enough to want to meet you, course a crazy and horny enough girl with a okish looks(or new in the city) will be easier to get something, but I pbet most are just for the how many msg she can get.

I call the tinder a meat market, as long you show you are good enough for what she will want you can get something, but serious I find it a lot more work then going out with girls
 

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It's a load of ass and if you have the patience to deal with women completely incapable of conversation or being interesting then you are a saint.
 

Çharismo

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Social media is all bullsh!t including "tinder".

I just have a Facebook account that I use to stay up to date with what's new and hip. Stay away from all this crap it's a waste of time. :kick:
 

LJBFB

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I'd delete my Facebook if I didn't need it to Tinder. .. I hate social media, but I'm a good looking guy who is shy. It is here to stay, so I have to adapt and learn. I find it hard to talk to the same girl over several days and get responses as opposed to okc. Then I tried being more aggressive without luck either. I'm on somewhat of an okc quick lay streak too.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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