"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Tinder vs other OLD

In the last year, have you managed to sleep with a girl from Tinder?

  • Yes

    Votes: 3 50.0%
  • No

    Votes: 3 50.0%

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CyrusTheGreat

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How do you guys compare Tinder against other OLD platforms such as Hinge or Bumble? Girls on Tinder seem to be the youngest, prettiest, and most DTF. But matching on Tinder seems way harder than Bumble, Hinge, etc. Have you guys had any success with Tinder in the last year? Are there any tricks/nuances for being successful on Tinder compared to other platforms?
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Bingo-Player

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. Have you guys had any success with Tinder in the last year? Are there any tricks/nuances for being successful on Tinder?
The quality of women on there is generally poor , most are shopping around to get an idea of their value or get a quick dopamine hit

I noticed the most common question i got from my matches was " do you have instagram" i think this is a popular female dating strategy now

The want the instagram @ to investigate further ......"what car does he drive" , " how much money does he have" , " is he popular / desired"

All of these questions should really be answered during several weeks over the dating / casual sex stage but women are using instagram to cheat that phase

They are looking for them very active influencer style profiles where there are 1000+ posts of top line Mercedes , luxury holidays and high end fashion brands

basically they aren't looking for a partner they are looking for a lifestyle they can attach themselves too

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The only strategy i can see working now is if you can looksmaxx your profile ( muscles , 6 pac , hair , well dressed)

This will draw them in without doubt

Once you have the match you need to be quick witted or sexual and get straight to the point

Don't arse about with stupid boring questions like " how are you " , " how was your day"

Most girls have absolutely zero intention of meeting you anyway so you may aswell get creative

If she's horny and you say the right thing it may be a quick hookup , if you can't get her to meet within 72 hours of the match forget about it and remove her

This to me is far better than going around in circles talking about netflix series
 

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I’ve been on Bumble, Tinder, and Hinge. In my AO it’s all the usual suspects, same women on all three.

The only OLD app that has different women is The League, definitely a different set of chicks, definitely more squared away ones and less land whales.

How do you guys compare Tinder against other OLD platforms such as Hinge or Bumble? Girls on Tinder seem to be the youngest, prettiest, and most DTF. But matching on Tinder seems way harder than Bumble, Hinge, etc. Have you guys had any success with Tinder in the last year? Are there any tricks/nuances for being successful on Tinder compared to other platforms?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Solomon

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OP is right it's waaay harder to match on Tinder than 10 years ago however it's the easiest to pull

Bumble is a mix bag of girls that you can pull asap or take them on a date and pull then

Hinge is the best for dating, are girls DTF on Hinge, sure if that's what you're lookinng for. If your ELO score is low Hinge isn't worth it
 
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