"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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old_skoolr

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Just an interesting thing I've noticed while playing Tinder.

I cleaned out the about me section and changed it from the lyrics of NWA's I aint the one to something more shorter.

Basically I've added my height in the about me (190cm or 6'2) and noticed that I've gotten more matches in 2 weeks then I did in 6 months.

My about me now reads:
Cant spell class without ass.
190cm of pure smartass, I know what your thinking.
You cant even deal right now.

Maybe something you taller guys can look into and see how it works for you.

Does add to the discussion about women being height nazis. I did have one girl match me and said dont wanna talk to a guy whos not at least 6'1. She was 31 and ugly too.....BLOCKED!!!!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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dk1990S111

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lol i read this earlier and thought the whole point of bring up your height was to hint about your other measurements, but rereading it now in not sure if thats what you were getting at. In any case, I am having really good results with this now, it has changed the number of matches im getting and the quality (hotness) of the matches too.

Mine now reads "75 inches....tall. I know what you are thinking."
 

old_skoolr

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Haha I didn't actually mean it as an innuendo, but hey if it makes more hot girls swipe right, I ain't complaining.
 

dk1990S111

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Lol thanks for the idea anyways. It's crazy how much some stupid words affect who is attracted to you.
 

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I havent found height to be an issue on Tinder. I think your profile was simply worded well now...and better than using old school hip hop lyrics.

Though at the end of the day the thing that matters most on Tinder is good pics.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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