"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Tinder superlike. Does it make it too keen?

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I don't want to come off as desperate. What are you guys' experience with it?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I don't really bother with it. There are some girls that will be flattered by it, but I find a lot of the time I get the like-back and then they don't bother conversing with me.

Actually out of my last 20 or so matches, I don't think a single one has bothered actually talking to me post-match, regardless of normal/super like or different openers. I'm thinking of just not wasting my time on it.
 

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The dating pool is trash. Who cares?
 

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I honestly don't know WTF 90% of girls on Tinder are on there for. I've known hot girls who have been on Tinder for a year and they've told me (apparently honestly, because I see them multiple times a week and they don't seem to socialise elsewhere) they've not been on a single f***ing date from it.

They may as well rename the app Egow*nk and be done with it.

Admittedly I live in a fairly remote location, but I can swipe right on girls who wouldn't have a chance of getting a date with me in RL (I know that sounds harsh, but it's true) and I'm lucky to get 3 likes a month sometimes.

Every reasonable looking girl on there seems to think she's 20/10 and only 20/10 UBERCHADS can get a date with her, and she'll be damned if she's going to drop a precious like on any of the other riff-raff.
 

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I honestly don't know WTF 90% of girls on Tinder are on there for. I've known hot girls who have been on Tinder for a year and they've told me (apparently honestly, because I see them multiple times a week and they don't seem to socialise elsewhere) they've not been on a single f***ing date from it.

They may as well rename the app Egow*nk and be done with it.

Admittedly I live in a fairly remote location, but I can swipe right on girls who wouldn't have a chance of getting a date with me in RL (I know that sounds harsh, but it's true) and I'm lucky to get 3 likes a month sometimes.

Every reasonable looking girl on there seems to think she's 20/10 and only 20/10 UBERCHADS can get a date with her, and she'll be damned if she's going to drop a precious like on any of the other riff-raff.
Uberchad haha
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I have only super liked by accident, I think twice. Both Said time it went something like this:

HB: did you mean to super like me?
LL: oh shoot no my phone is looking for a date too. It super likes but I only ever just like
HB: ok then lol
LL: do u have an iPhone 7 in a pink case? I have iPhone6 and he’s always telling me that he wants to “date up”
HB: lol you are funny
 

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I'm so f***ing done with Tinder now, I decided tonight that humour is my only remaining recourse. Warmed up the photoshop skills, and ladies and gentlemen I now present to you my new profile pic.



Advertising myself as "Your own personal T-800".
 

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I superliked sometime and got liked back but apart a single case it lead to nowhere (as usual).

I've been superliked too from those that I call "creatures of the deep sea" and I'm not talking about whales, Im talking about "20,000 Leagues Under the Sea" monsters.
 

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I don't want to come off as desperate. What are you guys' experience with it?
I rarely if ever use it. By accident maybe. The app seems rather useless. I only match with foreign women (not complaining lol) or women I work with which is a headache but not complaining.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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