Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Uberchad hahaI honestly don't know WTF 90% of girls on Tinder are on there for. I've known hot girls who have been on Tinder for a year and they've told me (apparently honestly, because I see them multiple times a week and they don't seem to socialise elsewhere) they've not been on a single f***ing date from it.
They may as well rename the app Egow*nk and be done with it.
Admittedly I live in a fairly remote location, but I can swipe right on girls who wouldn't have a chance of getting a date with me in RL (I know that sounds harsh, but it's true) and I'm lucky to get 3 likes a month sometimes.
Every reasonable looking girl on there seems to think she's 20/10 and only 20/10 UBERCHADS can get a date with her, and she'll be damned if she's going to drop a precious like on any of the other riff-raff.
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
I rarely if ever use it. By accident maybe. The app seems rather useless. I only match with foreign women (not complaining lol) or women I work with which is a headache but not complaining.I don't want to come off as desperate. What are you guys' experience with it?
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.