"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Tinder pickup lines
- Thread starter sosousage
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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Her: yes/no...why do you ask?
Me: Because I want to smash your box
Note-Those interested and sexual will think its funny. Prudes and serious relationship seekers will unmatch immediately. I am fine with either lol.
lmao it doesnt sound that cool after translation to my langauge, but in english indeedMe: Do you recycle?
Her: yes/no...why do you ask?
Me: Because I want to smash your box
Note-Those interested and sexual will think its funny. Prudes and serious relationship seekers will unmatch immediately. I am fine with either lol.
lol email? are you getting successI've never used Tinder but in my opinion there's no pickup line needed...ever.
On the first email this is what I write:
"Wow you look terrific
On the second email this is what I write:
"I'd like you to join me for a drink. Will you meet me at (place) this (day) at (time)??"
will use that!
ApolloSunGod
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its actually work for me a couple of times..
me: do you like subway?
her: why?
Me: cause you got a foot long waiting..
pick up lines work if you have a few to work with spit game..
here i have no luck with anything. i try unique jokes basing on their photos but im only getting women that are texting with me for hours or days but when i ask about meeting she says no i then ask why she texts me and the answer is "I like to make fun of people" wtf dam it
i will try your ideas
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I will try match but afaik only tinder and badoo are working (for women only of course) in my country. i tried bumble and there was one girl only lol. ill check Match.
so you suggest me to just give my number after 30min talk saying i have to go? lol that might work
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Please tell me you don't actually use that line. You want to give off the paranoid schizophrenic vibe?
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How old are you?I've never used Tinder but in my opinion there's no pickup line needed...ever.
On the first email this is what I write:
"Wow you look terrific
On the second email this is what I write:
"I'd like you to join me for a drink. Will you meet me at (place) this (day) at (time)??"
I'm genuinely curious, not making fun but I never thought it possible to game a chick through email.
Yeah I made that thread so people who actually want to share can do it. no need for statements "i will not give you my openers, you beta"emails? personalised msgs? WTF is going on with you people? way to waste time and look weird
I am not sharing my openers sorry
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.