"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Too funny...

 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I wager Almost ALL of them are (((trying))) to bilk men for every recurring payment they can, allthewhile allowing women to roam free, seeing their likes etc - you only get to see your "like" (blurred-out face) if you pony up.
 

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This is no surprise and should be expected. OLD is a business that targets men.

The only thing that bothers me about OLD is that it's used as a weapon to shame men in the mainstream, because most of what men say is things like "hi" or they don't have the world's best pictures. In reality this is just evidence of the totally skewed marketplace there because women themselves are no better, you just hardly ever see that because women don't need to initiate or jump through their own hoops. If women had to qualify themselves to men, and if they had to initiate, you would see them send the exact same thoughtless messages (and pictures, profiles) that they complain about. That's what any guy who has actually had women message him will tell you.

Really hope a bloody fine will come at them and most of all the average frustrated chump will stop paying.
The afc might stop paying if he finds something like mgtow or black pill. But as long as he is stuck in the mainstream white knight or manosphere pua blue pills, where it's always something inadequate about him that he didn't say or do or have the right things and never the game itself, he will keep paying. What else is he gonna do?
 
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Never tried online dating, it seemed like too much work. I live in south Florida have Miami and Fort Lauderdale in the same area plus a host of smaller cities. I can talk to so many women just going about my day that it never seemed to me that OLD offered me anything better.
 

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Tinder's parent company got sued for fake profiles on Match several years ago. You mean to tell me they they didn't learn the first time?
 

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Tinder's parent company got sued for fake profiles on Match several years ago. You mean to tell me they they didn't learn the first time?
By "they" do you mean the men still using it or the company?
 

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Kinda sad it's gone that way. In my 30s I was around for the glory days of o l d. The quality was never as good as in real. But it was ridiculously easy to download a lot of different girls if you had a little bit of game. so it was a great lab for what works for you and figuring out what your into. And I did get a couple of good-looking girlfriends off it so it was possible.

But now it looks like the rest of western society dating wise the 9th ring of hell

the only way I would recommend using it now days is to practice your messaging game. But don't expect much.
 
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