Tinder match

[ItsFate451]

Matched with a Polish girl last Thursday. We made small talk and actually had a lot in common. She moved to my city about 6 months ago and still wanted to explore the city. I took the chance and asked her out. Below is the exchange...

Me: When did you move to city?
Her: about 6 months ago
Me: nice. Now you have the opportunity to explore the city with me.
Her: lol I’ve been wanting to do that?
Me: when are you free to get together?
Her: like everyday!
Me: cool let’s meet up on Friday at 7!
Her: I’m hanging with my brother that evening!
Me: haha why say everyday then? Just let me know when you’re free
Her: haha I’m sorry. How about Monday?
Me: that works. Let’s meet Monday at 7.
Her: yay ok!

So today I sent her a message just to confirm for tonight. Because he she flakes, I rather her tell me now than showing up to the place and she won’t be there...

Me: hey so are you still down for tonight?
Her: hey! Yea I think so but I’ll let you know a little later.

I haven’t replied yet. My gut is telling me is something is going to come up and she’s gonna cancel. I’m giving her until 3 today and she hasn’t given me an answer, I’ll find something else to do. I’m not gonna reserve my night for a “maybe” or “I’ll let you know later”

 

[R.U.G.]

Sounds like you may be a backup plan if her 1st plan falls through.

 

[Roober]

"Okay. If you cant confirm, we can setup a date some other time"

 

[Glassguy]

"Okay. If you cant confirm, we can setup a date some other time"

This. But I would throw a "maybe" in there.

If you cant confirm, maybe we can set up another time for when I am free".

Then do not initiate. If they arent going to put forth effort to set up a date, they are not going to show up.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

Jakes on OPie.

Tinder match not matches. Here's your first problem.

 

[R.U.G.]

This. But I would throw a "maybe" in there.

If you cant confirm, maybe we can set up another time for when I am free".

Then do not initiate. If they arent going to put forth effort to set up a date, they are not going to show up.

If a woman kept me in the wings like that, I'd go balls to the wall and say perhaps another time when your schedule is more clear. However, this is more like an ultimatum; which rarely work.

 

[Glassguy]

If a woman kept me in the wings like that, I'd go balls to the wall and say perhaps another time when your schedule is more clear. However, this is more like an ultimatum; which rarely work.

Ultimatum? Wtf are you talking about. Do you know what an ultimatum is? Lol.

Seriously, there is no ultimatum in my post. And for the record I agree with you that they never work. That's why I never use them. They look needy and desperate.

 

[R.U.G.]

Ultimatum? Wtf are you talking about. Do you know what an ultimatum is? Lol.

Seriously, there is no ultimatum in my post. And for the record I agree with you that they never work. That's why I never use them. They look needy and desperate.

Yea, if you do not see me, then we're not going to meet. That's an ultimatum wiseguy.

 

[Glassguy]

Yea, if you do not see me, then we're not going to meet. That's an ultimatum wiseguy.

Uh negative. That's not that my line indicated.