"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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dk1990S111

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What would you say is the best way to handle this? Asked her when she’s free and didn’t hear anything for a few days. Now she messaged just picking right back up where she left off, I’m sure most likely after things didn’t work out with another match.

Normally wouldn’t really care one way or the other after that but she is insanely hot lol
 

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I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

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She either has a boyfriend or yes, she is playing her other options. Get her number and lock her down for drinks after work asap
 

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Ex-boyfriend keeps coming back into her life, pump and dump material only.
 

skinnyguy

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She has millions of options.

I have this HB 4 coworker who just matched with an NFL player on bumble. She was bragging about it yesterday. To this girl you’re just another c0ck so don’t be surprised if she flakes in order to get with a better guy.!
 

CMNILS87

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What would you say is the best way to handle this? Asked her when she’s free and didn’t hear anything for a few days. Now she messaged just picking right back up where she left off, I’m sure most likely after things didn’t work out with another match.

Normally wouldn’t really care one way or the other after that but she is insanely hot lol
Doesn’t really matter. I had tons of those convos. Text and they don’t respond. Week later they text back when bored. I did the same thing. Got tired or bored and disinterested and just kinda eh.... text a bunch at same time when I came back to it
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

Read more...

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