"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Tinder help

JDJ

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Alright so I've got some girl on tinder that wants me to go drive her mustang, gonna give a wild guess and say she wants to hookup, but here's my question, she said she was going out of town for a week and we'd hangout when she got back, so should I wait till she messages me back or try and text her?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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old_skoolr

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She could be talking to you for an ego boost. Wait the week, text her, if her reply is not positive at all or if there's no reply. Block her. Not worth the waste of your time.
 

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old_skoolr said:
She could be talking to you for an ego boost. Wait the week, text her, if her reply is not positive at all or if there's no reply. Block her. Not worth the waste of your time.
We were already about to meet up before she left, but I had work and after that she went up north so she suggested we hangout after she got back, also idk man I haven't texted her but she keeps liking all my tinder photos and ****.... Idk if that means anything but might as well add all the details I can
 
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