Tinder/Facebook question

[Glassguy]

First off, been reading a lot on this forum over the past month. My ex fiance called off the wedding 4 months before it was scheduled and after a week or so of acting like a beta, I bounced. Lots of good info on here and some things that I should have done from the get go, like immediately told her to go kick rocks.

To the question-

Lots of Tinder chicks pop up and on the profile it shows mutual friends. Many have a mutual facebook friends with me so its easy to bounce to fb and find them to get a better idea of what they really look like.

Question is, do you guy ever hit them up with a message on fb and short cut the Tinder process? Most women in my area like aggressive guys, but I dont want to come across too aggressive and eager.

"Whats up ______? You came up as a swipe right on Tinder and I noticed we share a mutual fb friend. I figured I would short cut the painful Tinder process and hit you up. Btw...did you realize that Snoopy was photo bombing your Tinder pic?"

Too agressive, or just let the Tinder chips fall?

 

[old_skoolr]

Keep Tinder for the casual hookup thing.

Make sure you keep your FB profile private that only friends can see you. That way if a chicks interested she'll add you. So your in control for the get go.

 

[dustmuffin]

Make a note of the friends that you share. If she dosent match with you, you then could send her a note asking her out on fb. Might work might not. You will only be out a few minutes time.

 

[Glassguy]

I went ahead and shot her a quick fb message....nothing creepy, basically mildly flirty but not showing extreme interest or asking her to hang out.

"You were a swipe right on Tinder...saw some mutual friends and just wanted to let you know the Snoopy doll hanging over your shoulder is photo bombing your Tinder pic.....you can thank me later, you're welcome "

If nothing else, its an experiment. I figure I will throw out a little flirt and jab, see if she bites. My thing on Tinder is try to close asap on a meet up, hang out or grab a drink. So I am sure anyone on Tinder that is an 8 or up is getting smashed with messages and opportunities. Maybe this is quicker moving, nothing else an experiment to see if it works and how the results are.

I'll update if anything happens.