"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Okay, so I've had this friend for like a year that I'm attracted to. She's a real maverick and kinda hard to figure out which is why I could never figure out how to make a move on her, she even came over to visit me at my home home over Christmas break (I'm in college and live 2 hours away). But the only vibe I ever got or get for her is never ever romantic at all. I've actually come to find out that she kind of gets around a little bit, so long story short I decide to make a move on her one night and get rejected because she says she just got back with her ex and doesn't want to mess it up.

After that, I didn't talk to her for awhile but we have a class together now and she'd always say hey to me but I'd barely speak to her. She eventually invited me to go to our football game with her so I did and we've started talking more since. So then I see her on Tinder like a week later and end up matching her! I send her a message indicating my surprise and she responds with a long "haha" laugh. So I basically get the feeling that she just matched me as a joke. I think that's really ****ed up to do to a friend, especially one who already made a move on you! So my question is do you guys think at some point I should try making a move on her again? I wouldn't ever want her to be my girlfriend because we wouldn't fit I kind of just wanna hook up with her.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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BraddH said:
What are you talking about?

Hook her up, if she doesnt want, move on. There are billions of other girls.
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I'm just asking if I should try again. I guess it seemed like I was rambling a little there.
 
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