Georgiaboy
Don Juan
- Joined
- Sep 15, 2016
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- Age
- 31
Okay, so I've had this friend for like a year that I'm attracted to. She's a real maverick and kinda hard to figure out which is why I could never figure out how to make a move on her, she even came over to visit me at my home home over Christmas break (I'm in college and live 2 hours away). But the only vibe I ever got or get for her is never ever romantic at all. I've actually come to find out that she kind of gets around a little bit, so long story short I decide to make a move on her one night and get rejected because she says she just got back with her ex and doesn't want to mess it up.
After that, I didn't talk to her for awhile but we have a class together now and she'd always say hey to me but I'd barely speak to her. She eventually invited me to go to our football game with her so I did and we've started talking more since. So then I see her on Tinder like a week later and end up matching her! I send her a message indicating my surprise and she responds with a long "haha" laugh. So I basically get the feeling that she just matched me as a joke. I think that's really ****ed up to do to a friend, especially one who already made a move on you! So my question is do you guys think at some point I should try making a move on her again? I wouldn't ever want her to be my girlfriend because we wouldn't fit I kind of just wanna hook up with her.
After that, I didn't talk to her for awhile but we have a class together now and she'd always say hey to me but I'd barely speak to her. She eventually invited me to go to our football game with her so I did and we've started talking more since. So then I see her on Tinder like a week later and end up matching her! I send her a message indicating my surprise and she responds with a long "haha" laugh. So I basically get the feeling that she just matched me as a joke. I think that's really ****ed up to do to a friend, especially one who already made a move on you! So my question is do you guys think at some point I should try making a move on her again? I wouldn't ever want her to be my girlfriend because we wouldn't fit I kind of just wanna hook up with her.
