Tinder dates (bis)

[Prodoge]

So I recently posted a thread about tinder dates and most of you guys suggested asking for a date within less than 10 messages back and forth.

Well I thought i'll chance my approach and be more casual not trying to come up with the most original opener etc..

Well anyway with one girl I was direct and asked how long do you usual message a guy before you are ready to accept a date to which she replied:" Well it depends but it's kinda wierd when you've only been talking for 5 minutes and you get asked for a date"

I'm not quite sure what to think of this but I think in my age groupe (18-22) it might be a good idea to transition to Snapchat for a while and only send her cool stuff you get up to. And then after a week ask her out.
That's what I'll try with this one.

 

[Desdinova]

You have to reach a certain level of rapport before you can ask ANY woman out. Once your conversation appears to be flowing very smoothly, then you move it to the next level. If the conversation is still consisting of "LOL" and "Yea", then you haven't built up enough rapport.

And unless you're stuck at home with a kid, you should be going OUT to meet women. Real life seduction is easier than computer screen seduction.

 

[backseatjuan]

You are going to fail misarably.

I have no clue what is tinder, but if it is anything like plenty of fish or some other dating site, then this applies. Read her profile carefully before you proceed. Say hi, ask a question, establish rapport, ask her out.

From the moment you contact her, to the moment you are out with her and fvcking her could be less than 4 hours.

 

[Young OG]

So I recently posted a thread about tinder dates and most of you guys suggested asking for a date within less than 10 messages back and forth.

Well I thought i'll chance my approach and be more casual not trying to come up with the most original opener etc..

Well anyway with one girl I was direct and asked how long do you usual message a guy before you are ready to accept a date to which she replied:" Well it depends but it's kinda wierd when you've only been talking for 5 minutes and you get asked for a date"

I'm not quite sure what to think of this but I think in my age groupe (18-22) it might be a good idea to transition to Snapchat for a while and only send her cool stuff you get up to. And then after a week ask her out.
That's what I'll try with this one.

Who cares what that girl told you. Remember, women say a lot of things. It's more important to watch what they do.

I've done lots of OLD, including Tinder. Find a solid opener. I use a funny question that almost always gets a response. Ask them out after a few messages back and forth. Make sure you get the number, don't set up a date through the app or Snapchat. If you do what you talked about above, then your going to waste your time and fail miserably. The reason you ask her out after a few messages is to weed out time wasters. There are many girls just looking for attention on OLD.