djthiago1
Master Don Juan
Riiight.. Just sent another one, check now.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Tinder date in the works
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
JohnChops
Master Don Juan
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“I’m free every night this week”= I have no Other prospects and you’re my only
Hope, pls date me.
“Hey wana go out”= I’m not confident enough to set up an actual concrete time and place date with you... yet (you sly dog!)
Top two are easily fixable. Ask her when she is free and mold that to your schedule. Even if you truly don’t have much going on, don’t let her know that. Never full disclosure, you need to keep some mystery to your name. And instead of the “hey wana go out” once you figure out what day you want to take her out just go “x place, x time on x day. See you then”.
Stop. Done. No more talking unless she opens her mouth first.
Hope, pls date me.
“Hey wana go out”= I’m not confident enough to set up an actual concrete time and place date with you... yet (you sly dog!)
Top two are easily fixable. Ask her when she is free and mold that to your schedule. Even if you truly don’t have much going on, don’t let her know that. Never full disclosure, you need to keep some mystery to your name. And instead of the “hey wana go out” once you figure out what day you want to take her out just go “x place, x time on x day. See you then”.
Stop. Done. No more talking unless she opens her mouth first.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
Showing yourself in a suit in the online pic, and then showing up in a work truck is a bait and switch.
If you work for a living, then own it. Show yourself in the pics getting dirty. You'd be surprised at how some women are turned on by that. They think it's manly. And plus, then you won't have to worry about what you drive.
If you work for a living, then own it. Show yourself in the pics getting dirty. You'd be surprised at how some women are turned on by that. They think it's manly. And plus, then you won't have to worry about what you drive.