djthiago1
Master Don Juan
Riiight.. Just sent another one, check now.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Tinder date in the works
- Thread starter RichardTheFrog
- Start date
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
JohnChops
Master Don Juan
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“I’m free every night this week”= I have no Other prospects and you’re my only
Hope, pls date me.
“Hey wana go out”= I’m not confident enough to set up an actual concrete time and place date with you... yet (you sly dog!)
Top two are easily fixable. Ask her when she is free and mold that to your schedule. Even if you truly don’t have much going on, don’t let her know that. Never full disclosure, you need to keep some mystery to your name. And instead of the “hey wana go out” once you figure out what day you want to take her out just go “x place, x time on x day. See you then”.
Stop. Done. No more talking unless she opens her mouth first.
Hope, pls date me.
“Hey wana go out”= I’m not confident enough to set up an actual concrete time and place date with you... yet (you sly dog!)
Top two are easily fixable. Ask her when she is free and mold that to your schedule. Even if you truly don’t have much going on, don’t let her know that. Never full disclosure, you need to keep some mystery to your name. And instead of the “hey wana go out” once you figure out what day you want to take her out just go “x place, x time on x day. See you then”.
Stop. Done. No more talking unless she opens her mouth first.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
Showing yourself in a suit in the online pic, and then showing up in a work truck is a bait and switch.
If you work for a living, then own it. Show yourself in the pics getting dirty. You'd be surprised at how some women are turned on by that. They think it's manly. And plus, then you won't have to worry about what you drive.
If you work for a living, then own it. Show yourself in the pics getting dirty. You'd be surprised at how some women are turned on by that. They think it's manly. And plus, then you won't have to worry about what you drive.