Tinder convo for 7 days?!

[narcissist]

Okay guys. I just have a quick inquiry.

Before anything I would like to say that if it DOESNT work out and I end up fxcking up my chances with this girl I could not care less, It wouldn't phase me at all. Just a disclaimer. But obviously I wouldn't mind smashing.

So let's get down to business.

Have this girl on Tinder, Convo started off pretty sh*t but I turned it into something awesome including sandwiches, massages, and tickle fights. She then Initiates that she would like to meet up with me.

I say im down and then shes like "but im just really into school"

I assume its a **** test so I send back "aight do ur thing"

she sends back ""

So now I know she **** tested me and I passed and now the cards are in my playing field. Anyways I dont reply to that for a while, and when i do reply its obvious that she into me hard. We talk on tinder for the next 4 hours.

Set up a date for next friday to share a pitcher of beer.


Heres the problem: She sent me a tinder message this morning "good morning"

I REALLY dont want to be keeping up conversation with this slooot for the next 7 days to be completely honest so i have a couple question for you guys. Considering Im not that good at text game but i know if we meet on friday i will smash. So i would rather not fxck it up over tinder.


1. Should i keep up conversation with her? If so, do you have an suggestions about what to talk about.

2. Should I just not reply? And if so, do you think she will lose interest?

3. What would the alpha do?



aight. If you guys could help me out on that, that would be great. Like I said, whatever if I fxck up, But wouldnt mind the smash, as she is kinda cute.

But i have the uncanny ability to fxck up over text convos.

thanks brahs

 

[CaptainSaveAh0]

Just don't reply , or reply a few times a day. I'm the same way, I don't like to drag on the text convo and I prefer to initiate a meet up. I only initiate in text convo until she is comfortable enough to meet up , especially on tinder. Not replying or replying sparsely will be good for your value. It'll show you are of high value and have no time for texting and is what the alpha would do. There is no reason she should lose interest in you over this.

I actually have a tinder "date" set up for sunday also haha, I will keep you posted. Good luck

 

[narcissist]

She asked me when is the last time i had sex.. She said she'd answer to once she gets my answer..

I have NO idea what to say.

Any help?

 

[Jaylan]

Don't be thirsty.

If shes not willing to meetup, find other chicks. Thats what I do. Don't waste time.

 

[bukowski_merit]

I think the biggest issue is the amount of time between now and your date; in the future - try to avoid that.

I read this a little while ago when i was researching people who are successful on Tinder:

http://www.reddit.com/r/alpha/comments/1tvseh/tinder_game/

I agree with his take on setting the date:

I tend to hit girls up on Tinder around Wednesday in preparation for Thursday - Saturday night dates. I want to be 'the new guy' rather than the guy that they promised to date one week ago and now he's fallen by the wayside but still pressing them to catch up.

Don't have specific advice on what's going on with this girl. It already looks doomed.

You can try and pitch a sexual question and answer game to her ("how about instead of answering that, we both get to ask each other a few sex questions and have to be honest?"). But even if she bites and plays, you're still working with this 7 day thing.

 

[narcissist]

Yeah that the thing.. 7 days seems like an eternity.

We are already talking about sex. But I think the best thing for me to do is drop all conversation with her until next Wednesday. End the convo with her wheel spinning and hit her back up on Wednesday. This way it closer to the date and she doesn't get bored with me over text..

Thanks for the advice playas.. Im going to implement my plan and see how it goes.. Worst comes to worst i dont go on a date with an hb7.. Big deal plenty other girls out there

 

[SmooveMooves]

Following the Text HandBook you simply converse with her for short periods each day. You can't ignore her because she'll think your doing so purposely, (which you would be right?) so until the date, humor her sparingly.

Have conversations with her here and there and then tell her "you got something to do/will be busy" and that you'll talk to her later. Boom, now you can go about your day without texting her and can initiate at any time you wish, also creating mystery because she'll be thinking "what's he got to do so important that he can't text me". Which you never tell her, unless its trivial.(Work, walking the dog, etc) If she initiates again before you do so, that's okay, doing that will display a super high IL and a sign of low chances on a possible flake.

The key here is to text her, but not for long periods.

As for what to talk about, let her do the work, she should be pushing the convo in which you comment on whatever dumb sh1t she wants to talk about. As for her question you can go two ways there, you can answer truthfully (Lie) or deflect. If I was to give a "truthful" answer I would say: About a week or two ago (even if it had been 2 months). For a deflection I would give an obvious lie: 15.7 billion yrs ago

And for future reference, listen to these other guys and dont schedule dates that far in advance, they should be a day or two away Max. I recently missed out on this HB8 cause' I scheduled a movie date for today Monday. I stopped texting her on Tuesday and when I reinitiated Wednesday she ignored. Oh well, her loss.

 

[El Payaso]

If you guys are already talking about sex, SEXT HER THIS NIGHT. JUST DO IT. If she's DTF, she'll soon be begging to just skip the coffee and come over to fvck.

 

[narcissist]

Following the Text HandBook you simply converse with her for short periods each day. You can't ignore her because she'll think your doing so purposely, (which you would be right?) so until the date, humor her sparingly.

Have conversations with her here and there and then tell her "you got something to do/will be busy" and that you'll talk to her later. Boom, now you can go about your day without texting her and can initiate at any time you wish, also creating mystery because she'll be thinking "what's he got to do so important that he can't text me". Which you never tell her, unless its trivial.(Work, walking the dog, etc) If she initiates again before you do so, that's okay, doing that will display a super high IL and a sign of low chances on a possible flake.

The key here is to text her, but not for long periods.

As for what to talk about, let her do the work, she should be pushing the convo in which you comment on whatever dumb sh1t she wants to talk about. As for her question you can go two ways there, you can answer truthfully (Lie) or deflect. If I was to give a "truthful" answer I would say: About a week or two ago (even if it had been 2 months). For a deflection I would give an obvious lie: 15.7 billion yrs ago

And for future reference, listen to these other guys and dont schedule dates that far in advance, they should be a day or two away Max. I recently missed out on this HB8 cause' I scheduled a movie date for today Monday. I stopped texting her on Tuesday and when I reinitiated Wednesday she ignored. Oh well, her loss.

thanks for the advice this actually seems more plausible and realistic. This way i can keep her wheel spinning with out making her lose interest.

I will implement this rather than my previous plan.

AT THE END OF THE DAY, its all a learning experiences bruhs, im only 20 and i need to make mistakes to learn or i will never be good with b!tches. i have 60ish matches on tinder since i got it back 2 weeks ago so there many more women to game on there.

 

[narcissist]

If you guys are already talking about sex, SEXT HER THIS NIGHT. JUST DO IT. If she's DTF, she'll soon be begging to just skip the coffee and come over to fvck.

Wasnt really about sex with each other. It was more the general topic of sex. But we'll see where the convo goes. if it turns into sexual innuendo then obviously i will sext her and just go for the fxck.

 

[narcissist]

update:

so i was studying for the past 2 hours, and wasnt msging her. She was the last to msg me

just now she sent me "your long reply time is a bit disconcerting..."

hamster wheel spinning?

 

[SmooveMooves]

update:

so i was studying for the past 2 hours, and wasnt msging her. She was the last to msg me

just now she sent me "your long reply time is a bit disconcerting..."

hamster wheel spinning?

Indeed. You reply by saying you do alot during the day or have alot on your plate. Even if all you do is sit on your ass.

Make sure you "end" the interactions though to avoid seeming to purposely ignore her. A mistake i recently made.

 

[Yewki]

She asked me when is the last time i had sex.. She said she'd answer to once she gets my answer..

I have NO idea what to say.

Any help?

LOL. Classic. Hopefully you didn't directly answer that. She was trying to qualify you, and it's none of her business. Would have been best to either ignore it or be silly (i.e. "That's none of your business, but as for the next time...")

 

[El Payaso]

update:

so i was studying for the past 2 hours, and wasnt msging her. She was the last to msg me

just now she sent me "your long reply time is a bit disconcerting..."

hamster wheel spinning?

Tell her you ran out of texts on your carrier plan.