"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Timing and patience

Is patience and timing important to getting a girl ?

  • you don't have to be patience to get girls

    Votes: 1 14.3%
  • being patience is the key

    Votes: 6 85.7%

  • Total voters
    7
  • Poll closed .

Blackdragon5095

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Lately I have been doing a little test. If I want to get back at someone. What I do is wait until the time is right. After reading some art of war and the prince I learn that the most patience man wins. It seems like patience plays big parts in seducting women even getting goals done. When it comes to getting your goal done you must have patience. When it comes to being a successful DJ with women you must be patience. Telling her you like her when you first meet her is a sure way to get rejected thats why I think patience is a MUST !!!

Here a little story....
Their was this guy in a battlefield. It got so dangerous that the second you lift your head up, you would have gotten shot so the men layied their under fire from the enemy and called for backup. A F14 came and shot some missiles at the enemy. 1 man got unpatience and was tired of waiting and got to shot at the enemy and he end up getting shot right in the head.

This little story teachs that being patience and having the right timing will even ketp you alive. 1 more example

Even it comes to be funny ( l'll have guide how to making jokes for the ladies :D ) You must must must must have TIMING !!!!!! when you have the wrong timing the joke won't be funny and if you time the joke right it will be funny.

2 questions.

A. have you ever wanted to get payback at someone and was patience about it and end up getting your pay back

B. have anyone here used patience to 1. getting a girl in bed 2. getting a girl to fall in love with you 3. apporaching many girls until finding a girl to flirt and kiss on ??
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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guitaronfire411

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Patience is very important. The longer the seduction, the more legitimate the interest from both parties.

CPC:

Confidence
Patience
Charm
 

VinnyPants

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absolutly

Great post and even greater advice..... it truly is the key to all great wins.. patience is a lost art form and if you learn to master it you can overcome so many minor setbacks.....
 
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