Time where ex DIDN'T contact you?

[hansol]

Hey guys,

Quick question: a lot of times on this site you read about how a chick will initiate a break-up, the guy will keep his head and go no-contact, and after a period of time the ex will contact the guy. Has anyone had it happen where instead your ex just completely disappeared after? Or do they always come back in some fashion or another? (I'm not talking a 3 week fling, let's say minimum 6 month+ LTR sorta deal.)

 

[TheWolfMan]

I mean it's not guaranteed dude, the No Contact thing is for your sake only so you can move on and better yourself. If she contacts you then fine, but like don't count on it. Move on and forget her, game other girls.

 

[NewAndImproved]

Sure. It's happened.

One time the girl just mirrored me and I haven't heard from her since college.
However, I did bump into her best friend at a party 2 years ago. She was drunk and started talking **** about my ex -- I didn't react. All I said was "wow, I thought you guys were friends." Then she started saying how my girl "talked about me all the time" -- I didn't react to this either and the girl just walked off. A few weeks later the best friend deleted me off facebook, lol.

That was the first time I really felt empowered in the game.

Now even if I never hear from her, or don't have a drunk best friend to confirm that she's been affected, I know that the wheel always spins, lol.

 

[The Duke]

I've had them completely disappear for an extended time(1yr) but 4 out of the 4 that I've had ltr's with all tried to get back with me at some point.
Women have a hard time getting over past relationships involving someone they cared about, much harder than the average male.

 

[PeakIV]

Women have a hard time getting over past relationships involving someone they cared about, much harder than the average male.

Are you sure???? any women can walk out the front door and be in a relationship if they choose....next....

 

[Purefilth]

three times from LTRs. But I burned those bridges properly before walking away.

I dont keep contact with ANY of my exes though.

 

[j0504s]

sry wrong thread Edit

 

[BadNews]

Forget about her...why are you even wondering this?

 

[hansol]

Thanks guys. Maybe should have clarified: I'm not planning on getting back with anyone. I was out for dinner with a buddy of mine and we got talking about ex's and stuff, and it came up how every single one of our ex gf's contacted us at some point. Got me curious if anyone had an ex go completely ghost on them like we preach here.

 

[The Duke]

Women love men they do not fully understand because everyone else around them is offering up that personal information freely. Mystery. Mystery.

Women can go from relationship to relationship relatively easily because orbiter men are so commonplace in her life. She doesn't have to try to get a good looking boyfriend. However, women probably only really truly care for a few select men in their lives--the guy who wasn't a pushover, made her work a bit, and gave her multiple orgasms. If you were one of these men, she will hit you up at some point down the road.

very true in my experiences.

PeakIV- yes any of them can walk out the door, but a lot go down the road eventually regretting the loss of what they once had. Women are pretty emotional and it doesn't take much to convince them that the grass is greener. But eventually they wise up and regret that one great guy that stood out from all the rest. They just didn't know it at the time. That one guy will be exactly what SoSuave666 describes.

 

[pdx1138]

It's been almost a year since my ex broke it off.

Haven't heard anything from her and don't expect that I will, though
it was a "friendly" breakup. I am the criteria sosuave666 mentioned.

If she does, I'll post it.