"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Time to turn off the ganji yet?

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So I had a relationshop with this girl, she dumped me and friendzoned me, so we went back to chilling all the time but as friends. She knew I liked her but she was a ***** to me at times so I wouldnt like her. Over the college break weve been chilling a bunch. After one night I just couldnt stand being in the friendzone with her, she knew how I felt. So I cut off contact suddenly. We went from hanging out all the time every day to no contact. Ive been ignoring her calls and such. Its been about a week so far.

Anyways yesterday (new years eve) I get a call from her again, I hit the ignore button. She leaves me a message saying stuff like I was thinking about you and wanted to let you know that you rock, youre my ex-boyfriend and my friend, I still kind of like you happy new years I gave you a call before but you didnt call me back. Some stupid **** like that

So my question is this when should I stop the ganji, how should I re-initiate contact with her. I cant hold up the ganji for much longer because im going back to college and she lives in my hall so ill be seeing her a lot. But the ganji seems to be working in my opinion.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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It sounds like she's trying to hook you back in to hanging out with her. She could be sincere about saying she still kind of likes you, but I think she's honestly trying to bait you. Maybe thats all she has to offer to try and get you back as a friend.
 
Desdinova

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This is EXACTLY what I don't like about the Ganji 5hit. It prevents you from moving on with your life. You're wasting your time by focussing on ignoring a girl. The problem is, it KEEPS you thinking about her instead of moving on without her. It prevents you from becoming an independent human being who doesn't need a woman to survive. Ganji keeps you needy, hoping that the girl will come back and make you happy again.

Give up the Ganji 5hit and take your life back.
 
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