Time to start studying the game again...

[Warrior74]

I'm no major DJ, player, pimp. What ever. Just a normal guy. I usually get laid on a regular basis. But a couple of months ago my team of three women fell apart, my finances were ****ed up and my job was in danger. I also have some on going health problems which are permanent.

Needless to say I had to focus on keeping my ship afloat, I've gotten in good graces with the boss (very good, he's flying me to DC to help set up our new studio next month), I've found a new clientele for my freelance work, and I'm finishing up my website and marketing plans. But there has been a lack of sex in my life for the last 2 months while I've been working on this.

So now it's time to get back in the game and really make something happen. Enough KJing on SS.

My goal is to read the DJ bible. Listen to all of my player supreme podcasts, re-read player supreme's 7 steps to being a player. Buy some new winter gear and to get back in the gym hard (as hard as I can, all things considered)to work off some of this flab.

It's time to be a student again. Time to learn and to practice what I learn and to report back about it. Also its time to stop spending so much time on SS and more time getting my ducks in a row.

 

[Demystify]

How are you just a normal guy and get laid on a regular basis at the same time? Usually guys that get laid on a regular basis are exceptional and far from normal.

 

[thecurtainfalls]

Warrior... with all due respect I don't see how the F you can ever call yourself a keyboard jockey. Just because you haven't gotten laid in a while doesn't mean you've suddenly lost all of your credentials and life experiences. You've written some of the best and most useful replies that I've read since I came back to SS. I know you'll have your sh!t together sooner than later. Good luck man, I wish you the best.

 

[Warrior74]

How are you just a normal guy and get laid on a regular basis at the same time? Usually guys that get laid on a regular basis are exceptional and far from normal.

I was shacked up for 7 years getting sex about once a week at best. The last two years of singlehood, I probably scored about 3-4 times a week when I had three girls and when I got down to one it was about once a week (single moms don't have a lot of time eh?) now I'm at zero.

The average married guy probably gets laid once a week or every 2 weeks, maybe? I dunno. So I figure for my age and status I was about normal. For the average PUA, DJ, Mack or pimp, I'm waaay below normal I would guess.

Anyway..started in the gym today. Feeling good. Just made some deals. Going out to a wine tasting event later, gotta go get fresh!

Warrior... with all due respect I don't see how the F you can ever call yourself a keyboard jockey. Just because you haven't gotten laid in a while doesn't mean you've suddenly lost all of your credentials and life experiences. You've written some of the best and most useful replies that I've read since I came back to SS. I know you'll have your sh!t together sooner than later. Good luck man, I wish you the best.

Thanks man.

 

[Solomon]

Warrior does that mean you gonna keep a Journal?
I think u should espeically in the MM section, I use to read your FR's and I think it be a good challenge because you can have other members guide you along and also hold you accountable

http://www.puablogs.com/The_Player_Supreme_Show/
^^his best stuff IMO, honestly when he was on my ass(last year) that's when my game was the best :crackup:

peace

Player Supreme My approach is to be confident and sure of myself. Sometimes I will even crack a joke on her as my opening line. I rarely give my first name first in the convo. Women don’t really care who you are when you first meet, all they wanna hear is how pretty you think they are. What they desire to hear is that all that effort that they put into getting dressed, make-up, shoes, everything was done successfully, so they can relax for a moment.

^^funny thing is he dissed me for using his stuff....eeeh no hate though....

 

[zekko]

How are you just a normal guy and get laid on a regular basis at the same time? Usually guys that get laid on a regular basis are exceptional and far from normal.

Hmm, I don't agree with this. I haven't looked for any statistics to back me up, but I think MOST guys get laid on a regular basis. I think most guys probably have a girlfriend, at least.

 

[lazikia]

Hmm, I don't agree with this. I haven't looked for any statistics to back me up, but I think MOST guys get laid on a regular basis. I think most guys probably have a girlfriend, at least.

The apartment complex I just moved out of was really social and communal. Lots of guys and lots of girls. There were only two guys who got laid on a regular basis and they were far from normal. One of the guys was exceptionally hilarious (not to me but to girls) and the other guy was exceptionally a bad boy. I'm not saying this represents all of humanity, but I've often seen this same scenario in lots of places. So I agree with Demystify.

 

[zekko]

The apartment complex I just moved out of was really social and communal. Lots of guys and lots of girls. There were only two guys who got laid on a regular basis and they were far from normal. One of the guys was exceptionally hilarious (not to me but to girls) and the other guy was exceptionally a bad boy. I'm not saying this represents all of humanity, but I've often seen this same scenario in lots of places. So I agree with Demystify.

Just pulling out the first example that pops into my head:
I'm thinking about the guys I work with, more or less directly. Out of 10 guys, seven are married or have girlfriends, one is gay, and one I have no idea about. That leaves one other dude, who doesn't do real well with women. He has gone through a number of girls, but they tire of him quickly, because he's kind of immature, and a fairly young guy, under 21.
I'm thinking that the age bracket that you're in probably influences this to some extent, with the younger guys getting laid less, I'm guessing.

 

[Energizer]

Warrior you are on the few people that I have the deepest respect for on this forum. You have taught me so much, so what, you're having a few problems. Just get back on your saddle and ride off into the wind again. You dont need to re-read the bible when it is you who offers fantastic advice. I wouldnt be half the man I am if it wasn't for your advice. Keep soldiering on man.

 

[Warrior74]

Warrior you are on the few people that I have the deepest respect for on this forum. You have taught me so much, so what, you're having a few problems. Just get back on your saddle and ride off into the wind again. You dont need to re-read the bible when it is you who offers fantastic advice. I wouldnt be half the man I am if it wasn't for your advice. Keep soldiering on man.

Thanks. But my advice to people is to always read the dj bible. I should take my own advice. It's easy to sit back and give advice. It's another thing to follow it. Gonna get dressed tonight and meeting some friends out at the club in about an hour. Went out last night and had a crappy night...thinking about posting about it. it was more about my "friends" than game.

 

[SchoolBoy]

It's always good to re-read the DJ bible sometimes just to reinforce the key points.

When I was still a huge AFC, I use to watch David Deangelo's Double Your Dating videos over and over. I've probably watched it 5-6 times.

After my marathon of watching this video. I went out and layed a HB 8.5 first date. And I have NEVER done that before prior to watching that video.

I can say that if I didn't review that video multiple times, I probably would have leaked some AFC behavior that day and probably wouldn't of sealed the deal.

 

[Warrior74]

It's always good to re-read the DJ bible sometimes just to reinforce the key points.

When I was still a huge AFC, I use to watch David Deangelo's Double Your Dating videos over and over. I've probably watched it 5-6 times.

After my marathon of watching this video. I went out and layed a HB 8.5 first date. And I have NEVER done that before prior to watching that video.

I can say that if I didn't review that video multiple times, I probably would have leaked some AFC behavior that day and probably wouldn't of sealed the deal.

Yah. Part of my lifestyle is having a team of women. So after a while, you stop recruiting and start managing and scheduling. I gotta get back into a recruiting mindset. PUA's are always recruiting, but never building a team.

Went out last night, but it was an extremely slow night. My friends bailed and called it an early night. I went to the pool hall to shoot pool. A chic I tried to date right after my 'divorce' who friendzoned me came out to see me. She's the only chic since the D that I have been hardcore AFC with. Every couple of months she comes around and tries to be "just friends" and I try to get some pvssy and she refuses and I quit talking to her. You would think she would get the point by now.

Anyway, I had a few by then, and was watching the Lakers game when she showed up. We talked for a while, and she started talking about how she needed a basketball player to marry. Or maybe a golfer. "Tiger Woods wife is one lucky woman."

That **** set me off. I never raised my voice or got angry...but it went something like this.

Her:Tiger Woods wife is one lucky woman.
Warrior: He's an idiot.

Her: Yah, as rich as he is, why cheat?
Warrior: You can't come late to the player game.

Her: See why does it have to be a game? Why can't it be about love?
Warrior: PSSH! Please, you know its all a game, stop playing.

Her: Well at least she's gonna get paid out of the deal.
Warrior: He shoulda pulled a George Clooney and never got married in the first place.

Her: See you're just bitter, that's whats wrong with you, just because you date gold diggers and ho's doesn't mean everyone else does.
Warrior: Tiger does. I'm just saying. He was stupid. Late to the game.

Her: Why are we even arguing about this?
Warrior: Because you won't stop talking.

Her: You're so arrogant.
Warrior: Yup.

Her: What ever. I'm just saying, men can't be satisfied with one woman, that's the problem, you don't know how to keep it in your pants.
Warrior: And you just want somebodies money that you didn't earn. What do you call it when you get paid for having sex with a man?

Her: Don't act like you wouldn't marry a woman for money.
Warrior: Only if she was really hot. I gotta be able to stand to look at what I'm humping. No Oprah biatches.

Her: You're so shallow and arrogant.
Warrior: Yup. And you are so confused. I never heard you say jack **** about feeling sorry for her broken marriage, her kids lives which are gonna be turned upside down. Or their relationship...all you talked about was the money. You want a man with money to love you and just be a punk for you, YOU'RE STUPID, that's why you're single right now. You can't play your role.


Her: You don't talk to me like that. Just cause you had a few drinks you think you're the man now? F*ck you I'm leaving.
Warrior: LOL you butt hurt now? Have fun.

Hopefully she'll quit coming around now. Yah I know I was a complete ass. But screw it. Today seemed like a good day to burn a bridge or two. I gave up on hitting that a long time ago, I don't call her. And the funny thing is, once I got over being AFC for her, I saw a ton of faults in her, things that I would never put up with in a relationship. Excessive weed smoking, tons of male friends. No female friends. Tons of ex boyfriends. Anti Male Feminist. Conspiracy theorist. Very negative personality. Never dresses to impress. has socialist tendencies. Why would even want her pvssy? It's attached to a crappy person. Every two weeks like clockwork she calls me, I'm polite and get off of the phone as soon as possible.

 

[hansol]

Warrior, you're a solid guy. Don't get too down, you'll get the ball rolling again no problem. Sometimes you just need some downtime to recharge the batteries.

That's some funny stuff you told that chick. I'll guess she probably won't be going for wings with you any time soon haha

 

[Demystify]

A chic I tried to date right after my 'divorce' who friendzoned me came out to see me. She's the only chic since the D that I have been hardcore AFC with. Every couple of months she comes around and tries to be "just friends" and I try to get some pvssy and she refuses and I quit talking to her. You would think she would get the point by now.

I have this very same problem with a girl. You would think once she realizes that you don't want to be just friends with her then she would leave you alone, but no she has to be vain and keep on trying to use you as the friend that gives you attention. It's really annoying. I ignore her like you do, but every time she comes around she always has to drop some bomb on me that makes me want to chase her again. It sucks.