"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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time to move on or what?

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i know it's being another afc stuff..but i want to share-maybe you guys might give an advice.there is a girl in the company i work.i followed the golden path and had a date close.phone numbers etc and one date in the theater..
*actually the background story is quite more complicated but i don't want to bother you with a long text.

then she told me that she had a warning because i talk with her in the working hours etc..i respected and last week i pretended that we had never met.i even did not say hi to her :) she neither..

** i live in turkey..everything is free here however society talks..and some girls care about those gossips..

and then.. three days ago i called her..she closed her phone to my face..
and two days ago i called her again and she did the same thing..also she did not turned to me..even did not ring..

i was really mad :mad: i deleted her number from my cell..also from my msn list..

yesterday i felt bad about this..i know i should not..because it just shows her "quality"..if you wanna end up..u must at least behave respectfully to me..now..i know she will turn back to me to say she is sorry..but again i know its time to move on.

sorry to take your time..if anyone has something to say on it.ready to talk.

long live selfcores*..
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* does not effected from circumstances..always on the mood..
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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piterx said:
i know it's being another afc stuff..but i want to share-maybe you guys might give an advice.there is a girl in the company i work.
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STOP. That's all I needed to know. Dating chicks at work is a bad idea, you should care more about your job than having sex with a woman you work with.
 
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ace of flames..it seems to be over really..i understood that her character is not consistent~and hitman10000 well dating chicks with girls at work,i am not regretted about this.i mean most of my time is spended at work.and jobs are part of our lives.i don't have a big social circle around me neither i am very social(cause i can'T stand dumb ass people :) and this city has loootss of them :)- yes me too ) so why not to collect chicks from work.
well there will be a little problem now,though- each time i go to bathroom i have to see her face,i just pass front of her..lol i guess i will have to pretend there is noone there- or you guys would say "hi ?"- don't think so cause she won't "hi" back.whatever,easy come easy go..
thanks guys.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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sorry for bothering you for such a slvt..i am more sorry to bother myself for her also..she is a lower level..
 
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