"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Time to get your own pad

mackdaddy27

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Well,

Okay your working on this chick. say its a day 2 or day 3 just talking on the phone or in person.

But you really haven't escalated anything, of course your doing some light kino.

But your not really escalating anything ( Sexually) because you live with a bunch of girls and you can't bring her home. You have 2 roommates who are girls.


So bringing them home is out of the question, Bring them to their pad, I dont know if she is alone. And going to a hotel. That would be obviously directly sluttly.

So, My question is, if I talk to them and DONT attempt to fvvK THEm, Will I just be LJBF? Dont get me wrong, I Definetly want to have sex, but logisitcally speaking, I am too busy to go and search for apartments right now ...and it will take some time maybe like a month or two before I can move out.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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chancer

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you already know what will happen... Escalate things in the car or bring her over anyway when your roommates are out or sleeping.
 

mackdaddy27

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chancer said:
you already know what will happen... Escalate things in the car or bring her over anyway when your roommates are out or sleeping.

Thanks, I m going to do the car thing. ! If I wait a month or two before I move out, She will have forgotten me
 

reset

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I struggle with this in my own mind. I'm looking for a new job in the hopes of increasing my income so I can get my own place.

But you can't let that stop you. I was watching 9 1/2 weeks and they started screwing in the alley-way. Your car, her place.

If you and the chick want to fvck you will make it happen. Don't limit yourself.
 

thederekeffect1

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I used to live with a couple girls and they'd bring guy's home all the time and f*ck them, so I brought girls home and f*cked them. And the girls didn't mind either, I think it was more of a turn on for them knowing that they were the girl in a house full of females that was f*cking the only male.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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betterthandead

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So the point in getting a place of your own is so you can have sex with someone for 15-30 minutes?

I got my own apartment for only one reason: To be more independent from family.

Dorms don't count.
 

frisco

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I live with two girls right now, Its simple bring her over let her meet your roomies talk build more comfort, It will raise her attraction because your confident enough to live with two chicks kino joke have fun then isolate to your room to check out some music or something its simple. Me and my roomies have an understanding that we can bring over whoever we want,
 
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