"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Time to get out in the world. It's a nice sunday afternoon. Get out of the house!

Warrior74

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The title says it all. If your on the computer...get off it and get out into the world. get out of your head and see whats around. See you guys. Go have fun!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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It's actually beautiful over here.
Great advice.
Being outdoors in the sunshine is really healing and restorative.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Interceptor said:
It's actually beautiful over here.
Great advice.
Being outdoors in the sunshine is really healing and restorative.
Well duh, I see you're in FL.. of course the weather is nice...pfffftttt if you lived in NY you would be super addicted to the puter....

I wanna get fvcked on the Florida beach god dang it... I'm tired of seeing young amish woman pulling the tits of cows for milk...
 
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