"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Time to end it?

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Corey

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Any chance of some advice of the real DJ's if my relationship is still salavageable or if its totally dead? cheers.

Soo I have been with this girl for about 6 months now first month was amazing lots of sex lots of attention then she started a new job. Night shift, so with her puppy & family keeping her awake all day and working all night she got little sleep and was in a constant mood. So i was just trying my best to cheer her up over this time that lasted about 2months and it was ****. Then she started the constant checking her phone and flirting with guys on good old facebook thats when i stopped getting her anything really (with the exception of her birthday but I didn't go OTT at all.) and its just been about 4 months of a crap relationship without her showing me any emotion at all I even fear touching her in her sleep because I get yelled at lol. Tried talking to her about it - went straight back to the same old after that was a bad idea.
Now days when I go round to her house (which I have pretty much stopped doing totally) she just sits in her chair not even acknowledging me except chatting the occasional gossip about her mates thats about it haha :((

I am just looking for a straight up answer and a bit of motivation to end it. Am gutted but of course there are plenty more, thank you for your time gents
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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You answered your own questions if you re-read your post.

Why are you looking for motivation to end it? Her dissing you is not enough. You must really hate yourself to let her treat you this way. I would beat her to the inevitable punch, and cut this. ASAP. The longer you wait, the higher the chance she will do the dumping.

Here's a rule for life: Talk without action following doesn't mean anything.

Godspeed.
 
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