"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Time to end it?

Corey

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Any chance of some advice of the real DJ's if my relationship is still salavageable or if its totally dead? cheers.

Soo I have been with this girl for about 6 months now first month was amazing lots of sex lots of attention then she started a new job. Night shift, so with her puppy & family keeping her awake all day and working all night she got little sleep and was in a constant mood. So i was just trying my best to cheer her up over this time that lasted about 2months and it was ****. Then she started the constant checking her phone and flirting with guys on good old facebook thats when i stopped getting her anything really (with the exception of her birthday but I didn't go OTT at all.) and its just been about 4 months of a crap relationship without her showing me any emotion at all I even fear touching her in her sleep because I get yelled at lol. Tried talking to her about it - went straight back to the same old after that was a bad idea.
Now days when I go round to her house (which I have pretty much stopped doing totally) she just sits in her chair not even acknowledging me except chatting the occasional gossip about her mates thats about it haha :((

I am just looking for a straight up answer and a bit of motivation to end it. Am gutted but of course there are plenty more, thank you for your time gents
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Alle_Gory

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You answered your own questions if you re-read your post.

Why are you looking for motivation to end it? Her dissing you is not enough. You must really hate yourself to let her treat you this way. I would beat her to the inevitable punch, and cut this. ASAP. The longer you wait, the higher the chance she will do the dumping.

Here's a rule for life: Talk without action following doesn't mean anything.

Godspeed.
 
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