Time to do nothing and settle myself

[El MonoLoco]

Do to the recent events that transpired over the weekend...

See http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=99845
for more info


I've decided that I need to not talk to either of the two girls I was dealing with last week. At least for this week. I need to clear my head and figure out just what the hell I'm trying to do. It's been a few years since I've tried to date anyone so I think going really slow may be just what I need to ease back into the game...

I can almost feel the old AFC stuff creepin back into my mind....
Bad Monkey:trouble:


:rockon:

 

[El MonoLoco]

Damnit ....I feel the urge to call this chick...and it's only been 2 days since that really bad night....and only 1 day since I wrote whats above....


I need help

 

[El MonoLoco]

You know I'm getting real tired of asking for advice from yall....

I mean really? some of the posts on here are just dumb and pointless....and they have like 500 replies....

Then someone with a real question posts something and no one ever replies or only a few do...

I'm really starting to feel the cold shoulder over here...I try to give good advice when I think I can.

But this is starting to frusterate me....maybe I should find another place to get sh*t off my chest????



:cuss:

 

[El MonoLoco]

I can't leave this place...yall are my homies



But...


I did end up calling this girl when I got off work......left a messege...

We'll see if she calls back....

Should I just move on if she doesn't or should I try calling her again...if so when???


I could use some advice here guys?????

 

[flexion_]

You need to ask a simple question if you want a simple answer. What is your question? Stop with all the analysis of every little situation.

You seem to have nothing else going on in your life except your pursuit of one or two women. Whats the big rush? Get a "life". Life = gym, hobbies, friends, career, health, etc...

Women are just one part of the whole picture - they don't make or break the happiness in your life.

 

[El MonoLoco]

You're right flexion...I shouldn't be rushing......and all those fun things you mentioned I've got down....I exercise daily...I've got more than a few hobbies and friends....and I work all the time.......my problem has been my absence from the game.....

I go out all the time....get numbers that don' t go anywhere.......and here I finally get to move a step forward in the right direction and it feels like I feel down the stairs. Believe me I know I can get by without chicks...I've done it for a long time now....I just didn't want to funk this up and I think I did...but I'm not sure and I don't really know what I should or shouldn't be doing....At least I have another girl on the side that I could kick it with right now or I'd be hatin life....I just wanted this one to last for a sec.....


So if you could go back to that other post and actually read what the hell was going on that would be great....I'm just looking for advice and was getting annoyed at being ignored.....


Thanks

 

[GloriouslyInsane]

I think you're dealing with what i've dealt with some months ago when i was "enlightened".I started c+f etc and soon started beeing around girls alot more than before thus creating "in love" feelings inside me (noone prepared me for this).I was like "****" i'm falling for chick A,then weeks later i had a "thing" for chick B and so on.It was like an internal AFC vs DJ battle and it felt like crap,didn't know what to do,cal? not call?.Before i knew it i've spent days thinking about a girl or whatnot but time in the end dulled my so strong emotions.