"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Whats up people first post here.

I never really had a problem meeting and getting girls when i tried to.
My problem was that i was too afraid to try, not sure if it was because the fear failure or just lack of confidence.

Anyway i am 20 now in college and i decided it is time to make a change.
I started talking to more girls and pushing it farther then i used to before.

There is this one girl i met at a party about a week ago ( i would rate her 7-8ish). after leaving the party together we hooked up and started talking since then.

I had several opportunities to go back to her place/my place and have sex with her.

My problem is that i am not very experienced. I am not a virgin but i lack experience. Her being a year older im sure she had her fair share.

What do i do in this situation?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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lol
TURNING sex down isnt gonna get you better at it

as long as you have read up what you can do to be a good lover you just need to be confident...which you dont seem to be! else you'd have been banging her!
 
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im just worried it will sux lol (too quick and etc)

im in a frat she is in a sorority. i am going to see her every week pretty much
 
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kingsam

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lasting long isnt a prob, just take it out, go down on her for a while (most girls will love this)
know your poitsions, take the lead, keep swithcing her round
know the tricks of foreplay, how to make her incredibly wet, gaggin for it...
most guys just try and stick it in ASAP! whilst this is VERY tempting, make her wait a little longer, set the pace, have her begging for ur c0ck in her... she will then see you as good in bed, and other girl;s will hear about it - possibly rhe best socail proof you could have...

looks like you have a FB posibility...take it!!
 
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K.B said:
My problem is that i am not very experienced. I am not a virgin but i lack experience. Her being a year older im sure she had her fair share.

What do i do in this situation?
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You've got to have a first time sometime. May as well be now.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Stop trying to find excuses for not doing it and just do it! It doesn't really matter if you are good or not, theres only one way to improve.
 
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