"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Time Management

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This may come easy for some, and seem like a boulder in the way of their success for others. What are your time management suggestions? How do you manage your time? What's your schedule like? Just wondering you know...I go home, usually do some homework, eat and check sosuave. Then I do homework some more and work out until I'm done. After that I take a shower, finish up homework and sleep. I waste a lot of time between that though. Like I spend too much time here or I might go check out some random newspaper article or watch TV for too long when I'm running.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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GlutusMaximus86

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Well I probably have an undiagnosed form of OCD, but I generally give myself a fairly rigid schedule. I even estemiate how long it will take to do HW assigments and then plan my schedule around that estimate. There's no real point to this point to this post honestly, I'm curious about this myself actually, but I noticed your thread needed to be bumped up. So here you go
 

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Yo thanks for the bump. What I'm going to do is try to get a lot of work done during my study periods at school and lunch break. There aren't many distractions there (besides hot chicks who rub against me and all you know...) and I can focus (when tits/ass aren't in my face).

I tried writing how long it'd take me to do assignments and all, but it didn't really work out because I always took longer. I think I will try to get away from the computer. I believe that is key. Then afte 21 days or rwhatever I'll be cured like a piece of ham.

Thanks for the bump.
 

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I'm not sure where I've read this before, but apparently some guy wrote a book saying that you get 80% of your effective/efficient work done in 20% of the time you actually do the work.

So essentially he is saying you should work less, but how to work more efficiently.

But yeah, I tend to use "free time" (ie. driving, sitting on the train, on the toilet, etc) to read something useful. I've managed to finish up all my college assignments while sitting on the train, and in the toilet.
 

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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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That's not a problem for me since I, in fact, have a time machine.
 
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Brian Tracy has an awesome program for this. Simply called "How to Master Your Time". This program answers all the questions around time management I've come up with myself so far as well as all the questions Ive heard so far from other people.

Time is the scarcest recource for sure.
 
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