"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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georgie24

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this is only for those who are 100% self employed and handle thier own responsibilities aka not living at home, room mates ect

this lyfestyle can be very very thrilling almost drug like effects

i want input on guys who are in the position i described above

i can wake up go to gym, then go downtown to get lunch, stop at the store and with women being everywhere i can have fun all day and workload gets piled up

im figuring the fact that i started this thread im already getting ready to focus and not approach or game every single woman i see
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I run a business and you must be making better profits than me. For myself, it seems like I always have tons of work to do--and countless iterations that could make my business better--but time is always the bottleneck, and my motivation ebbs and flows because this is definitely NOT my passion. I am seriously considering taking an ENTIRELY NEW direction in life.

I think it's easy to get distracted--like right now I'm supposed to be working and somehow I'm at SoSuave.net...have you ever heard of a comic called, "The Oatmeal"?

Here's a link to a funny take on the PROS and CONS of working at home:
http://theoatmeal.com/comics/working_home

My incentive for self-emplyoment has been the scenario you are describing--but I've probably never sturggled more than making this business--sales for me is the absolute worst....

I digress...

But yeah man we hve to concentrate to get **** done. I lke to make lists and once I get everything on that list done I'm allowed to 'play'....outline 3-5 things, peck em off...THEN go flirt the ladies up.

Word.

What's your line of business?
 

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entrepenure, found my niche around 25 years old, mastered it by 29-30

yep i also put together a micro routine to finish tasking as soon as possible so i can go flirt, socialize

Albiet when the bills are due or the buisness needs its maintanace im in full blown work mode for as long as it takes until theres balance

latley ive gone about a week straight just as described above, waking up and just " touring" the city without a care in the world, felt amazing

i may start taking the last week of everyone off completly, im comfortable with what i have right now

and being in a 5 year relationship wich added to my " confinement" a week off working and just interacting with people feels great

im guilty of being a homebody while i was in relationship

so a week off here and there im willing to sacrafice " time in"

one of my favorites is going to a coffee shop order a small coffee then drive across town and hit another coffee shop and if i have something going on in another city ill hit those shops too

the icing on the cake is that im talking to people everywhere i go, not having a work load programed in my head for that day really free's up your social/witty side
 

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It's probably impossible not to be a home body when you're trying to build a business--I don't know any way to do that "part-time", it seems like it totally can absorb you (at least in the beginning). It has absorbed me.

Sounds like you have a nice niche carved for yourself man--massive congratulations on that, that takes balls and effort and a lot of commitment. We shouldn't be burned out or weighed down by work...this world shouldn't be an ecomony based on minimum-wage slavery...I think its cool you've found a way to free yourself from the reigns...
 
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