"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Time Is Running Out...

CORVETTE06

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This is my last year at college, and I've only had one girlfriend (for 2 years)

I meet plenty of girls, but so far haven't met the girl i'm looking for.

I'm getting nervous now that time is running out. I really want a girl from my college.

Any advice?

I was thinking of eating lunch alone in the cafeteria so that maybe a girl would sit near me so that I could talk to her...
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Dongfu

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why does she have to be from your college. WHat difference could this possibly make.

Sitting alone and WAITING for a girl to make a move is a bad idea. You must be the pro-active one.
 

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CORVETTE06 said:
This is my last year at college, and I've only had one girlfriend (for 2 years)

I meet plenty of girls, but so far haven't met the girl i'm looking for.

I'm getting nervous now that time is running out. I really want a girl from my college.

Any advice?

I was thinking of eating lunch alone in the cafeteria so that maybe a girl would sit near me so that I could talk to her...
College is not the time to worry about finding "the one". It's a time for exploring all the flavors of girls available to you. You have your whole life to find "the one" and only 4 years of college.

In short, get all the trim you can in college. YOU have to make the move.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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