Ask yourself a question. How do you feel when:
-You have just had a relationship end
-A 'prospect' has just LBFD you
-You have realised that you are never going to get the girl that you have been lusting after for weeks.
Pretty bad right. The feelings can be quite intense and such experiences can make you miserable (of course if you are a true DJ then you will be above and beyond such feelings but this post is directed more towards those with remnant AFC tendencies).
Now contrast these feelings with how you feel when you have been on your own for a while, there is really no-one you are interested in and you are just getting on with life. You may not be ecstatically happy during such phases but you are not miserable either.
Well I think that you have to realise that the latter of these two situations is your normal state of being. What's more you will always revert to this state given time. Why is this important? Because it is NOT THAT BAD. And it is a good base from which you can go out, meet new girls and put those DJ skills to work.
Therefore, the next time you have been dumped or rejected and are feeling low and you just feel like you HAVE to make things happen with the object of your one-itis because if you don't you will never be happy again and life is just so terrible and...... STOP! Nothing needs to be done. Just get on with your life and soon you will be fine again. And you WILL meet somebody else. I guarantee it. So don't worry.
-You have just had a relationship end
-A 'prospect' has just LBFD you
-You have realised that you are never going to get the girl that you have been lusting after for weeks.
Pretty bad right. The feelings can be quite intense and such experiences can make you miserable (of course if you are a true DJ then you will be above and beyond such feelings but this post is directed more towards those with remnant AFC tendencies).
Now contrast these feelings with how you feel when you have been on your own for a while, there is really no-one you are interested in and you are just getting on with life. You may not be ecstatically happy during such phases but you are not miserable either.
Well I think that you have to realise that the latter of these two situations is your normal state of being. What's more you will always revert to this state given time. Why is this important? Because it is NOT THAT BAD. And it is a good base from which you can go out, meet new girls and put those DJ skills to work.
Therefore, the next time you have been dumped or rejected and are feeling low and you just feel like you HAVE to make things happen with the object of your one-itis because if you don't you will never be happy again and life is just so terrible and...... STOP! Nothing needs to be done. Just get on with your life and soon you will be fine again. And you WILL meet somebody else. I guarantee it. So don't worry.