"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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rjames407

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just wondering if women still use the 'wait two/three days' to respond to missed calls or text messages as a test to see if you call again???

Anyone experienced this at all?


Any input welcome
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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while they're all different, like men (some are shy, some are scatterbrained, some play hard to get, people lose their phones etc) usually no response means they don't have much interest. women rarely have the courage to confront and prefer this passive route to rejecting potential suitors. unfortunately, this can happen even if they went out of their way to give you their number...

but don't panic. leave it a week then call and don't mention it. you're giving her a chance to get back to you, you're not appearing desperate and stalkerish, you're giving yourself another shot (people who barely know you can change their minds about you very suddenly, especially if you give them a reason to) and you're finding out one way or the other. i have regained the interest of a few women who ignored my first call.

after that if there's still no response, that is the response and yours should be to move on.
 

AKA FLEX

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Who knows? I stopped analyzing little things like that years ago. I just do what feels right now, and what do you know, the amount of tail I'm getting has gone up. Life is a lot more pleasant when you're not picking at every little minutia trying to find hidden meanings or messages.
 

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My time frame is this...if a girl ain't on her knees suckin me off by date 3, i pitch her skinny white azz to the curb
 
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