"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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time for kino!

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using psychological anchors to create desired feelings and states of mind in women.

what is an anchor?
an anchor is an external stimuli that triggers an internal state of mind through posotive assotiation.. sounds bizare but it will all become clear soon..

how are anchors created?
when a women is experiencing a high posotive state of mind, such as, happiness, excitement, secure, horny are a few examples, then you can anchor these feelings for her and trigger them off at a later time, almost like an emotional memory card!!
now this can be done a few different ways however kino already has its advantadges so this would be the ideal anchoring tool..
the way we create anchors is really quite simple but the timing and initiation are crutial in creating one..
when a women is experiencing the feelings you would like to anchor then then this is when you you actually use the kino to create the anchor, you can touch there arm, shoulder, knee and keep it there for as long as you can without creating any discomfort in the women!! now the assotiation between the kino and the emotions she is experiencing will create the anchor..
when you use this anchor in the future then she will sub-conciously recognise the assosiation and bring those feelings back
and even strengthen that anchor!!!

kino+happiness= happy anchor
kino+horny= horny anchor
middle finger+anger= pis*ed off anchor

notes on anchors.
anchors should be made when your target is experiencing great amounts of the desired emotion, at the peak of happiness or when she is very very excited..

you should always strengthen an anchor when given the opportunity; so you would trigger the anchor again when she is alredy in the same state, this would create a very strong anchor.

when a strong anchor is made it can be used to override negative emotions like sadness ,stress ,anger eg;

the anchor must be stonger than the neg emotion.
ralaxation+stess=realaxed
happy+sad=happy
confident=unsure=confident

i actually have my own set of anchors for myself, i would usually fire fun, confident, happy anchors all at the same time to creat a good state of mind for approaching women..
so you can probably see the endless possibilitys for anchors. i hope you will use them for your self and for others.







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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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hmmm...

Catch: An interesting post... do you mind if i ask you where u got this information from? I also read somewhere something similar to this...

Otherwise... I'll try this out, should be interesting... Thanx.;)

Laterz..
 

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i study five different areas of psychology, this is nlp. il be posting some other good stuff soon..
 

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iiiis iiiit....

oh? ok kewl... sounds interesting.. well i'll be looking forward to that then;)

keep well..

Laterz...
 
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