Time for Attract and Qualify

[Jamal]

Just what to let you guys know that this site is awesome and has helped me a lot and monday im goin back to school and ready to meet some hot chicks. The last quick question that I need to know is how long is it good to do the Attraction and Qualification stage in HS. It is recommended that the attraction stage should be 2-10 minutes and the qualification stage the same. But im asking you guys...how long would you do each stage??

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

I wouldn't focus on the amount of time it takes but quality of the attraction and how extensive your qualification criteria. A lot of guys will qualify by just two things;

1. Is she attractive
2. Is she interested

This is why guys get hooked up with women they deem as psycho. No, you don't need to get their psychological medical history but come on, it takes more than a pair of nice tits in order to tell whether a woman is a game player.

 

[Snow Plowman]

This isn't linear nor is it any time frame...

This stuff comes down to calibration and should also be mixed around depending on the situation.

If the chick already has her attention on you, giggling and still standing and interacting with you then attraction is already done. In this case there isn't much stuff needed to be done as far as attraction go.

If the chick was locked up and being very unresponsive, you'd be in attraction and could end up being in attraction for hours depending on how unresponsive she is. Though most guys will eject 2mins after they realize she's unresponsive because they don't like what's going on in the set.

If a chick was already attracted you could skip attraction and just qualify a chick, most chicks who I know is already attracted...(Seems to be every chick lately) I always qualify them right off the opener.

For me it's all about not overgaming and always moving the set forward. To do attraction stuff when you've already got attraction is an overkill and will push the set backwards. Thats not to say you can't do attraction stuff, it just means use it when it's needed.

 

[Jamal]

Thanks a lot for the reply "Snow Plowman"... I think that is the best answer I needed.