"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Time Crunch!

Juan in_a Million

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I have been an active reader among the DJ Bible and have learned many insightful tools that have helped me in the last year. I am a senior in college and will be graduating in three weeks. I will also be moving the day after graduation to attend medical school. The reason I am posting is because last week a girl gave me her phone number and we have had a great start and correspondence so far. The problem is that I have three weeks to turn up my DJ game! Any advice or suggestions on trying to pull this off in three weeks or less? Thanks!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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marmel75

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Yes.

1) Stop d!cking around, being text buddies, etc and ask her out.
2) Take her out for drinks, preferably where there are games like darts/pool you can also play
3) Try and go for the lay that night, but at least get a make out
4) If not, on 2nd date suggest her coming to your place/you going to her place and "watching a movie". This is code for "we are going to fvck". If she agrees to this and follows through with it, she is green lighting you to fvck her brains out. Now all you have to do i be a man, make the move and close the deal.

This should take a week max from 1st date to banging.
 
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