“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Time Claims Beta Males Who Embrace Feminism Get More Sex

zekko

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backbreaker said:
I think you trying to frame the arguement as cleaning up= BETA male is dead wrong

I also think the Time article trying to say that a man who cleans up should be rewarded with sex = dead wrong
Yeah, I mean some people are just neat nicks. I'm not one of them, but I know guys who are very tough and would beat you down in a street fight, but get them home and they will clean obsessively.

What we have here are two different articles each saying the opposite thing. So I would call the results inconclusive, like that study that shows women aren't attracted to men who smile. I think more research needs to be done before I buy any of it.

I mean I'm a guy, I've lived on my own, I can take care of myself. If I see something that needs to be done, I'll do it. I'm a grownup. There are certain things I don't like to do, like cleaning the bathroom. I'll leave that to my girlfriend, lol. But stuff like cooking, I can cook very well and if I want to make something I will.

Bottom line is this: I'm not going to change the way I do things because of some article on the internet.
 

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Just look at the pictures of men doing housework.Man doing dishes with gloves and apron looks like pvssy.

Actually she is liar , it has been proved the less you help the more you get fvcked because your wife doesnt see you doing things which are considered female work

Men Who Do More Housework Have Less Sex


A February paper in the American Sociological Review reported that married couples in which men take on a greater share of the dishes, laundry and other traditionally female chores had sex less often than average.

http://www.scientificamerican.com/article/men-who-do-housework-have-less-sex/
 

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People get too comfortable with each other, they fart,pick nose, women walk in sport pants at home,guys look like slobs ... that is speed killing the lust.
 

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Helping out around the house and cleaning is a good thing. But a man should do it because he wants to and/or believes that it needs to be done.

And sure, a clean environment with the chores done is better for sex than a dumpy environment and the stress of chores hanging over your head. No doubt.

My only concern is some married guy stuck in a sexless marriage might think, "If I do more housework, wifey will stop being frigid." Some wives WILL use this as an excuse to not put out. They will keep demanding more and more from the guy chore-wise and hold sex over his head. That's my only concern.

I'm not talking about a lazy slob guy. My concern is about the guy that works hard at home (and work) and still can't please wifey. I'm not married, but I know guys like this.

I fully support men being helpful though. Men are helpers. That's how we are wired. But sex is a separate issue.
 

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sodbuster said:
It DEPENDS on the wife. IF she's working as many hours as I AM.... I'll help out. I have to do it anyway being single....

BUT if I'm working 45 and she's working 20? Yeah, guess what your second job is "honey"
Thread over
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Mike32ct said:
There is nothing wrong with helping out. Men should help out.

I'm sure you just do it to be helpful.

What is sad is the guy who doesn't normally clean and then does it to "motivate" his wife/gf to put out.

Or the gf/wifey who decides to "reward" her helper guy with sex. That's also sad and wrong.
Ah ok, I see what youre getting at now.

Yeah fvk that. I dont need to convince a woman to find me attractive or want to have sex with me. Id find another woman if I was in such a situation. Yeah, Ill do things around the house to be genuinely helpful...but not as a ploy to get sex.

That said I do know that kind deeds can lead to sex. For example, if your girl makes you a nice meal...and because shes being so sweet, you give her a deep kiss. Then bam...sex happens.
 

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Can't identify. I actually have testosterone in my nuts.
 

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If she's not begging to drain your balls multiple times a day, she really doesn't like you, nor gives a rat's ass about your wants and desires.

If a man has to talk a woman into sex, and/or negotiate...that tells you all you will ever need to know about her interest level in you and your place in her life.

Years ago, one blue pill simp at work was bragging about how he talked his wife into sucking his **** the night before. After listening to his pathetic blustering, another guy fired back with "She's your wife...that's her job and you shouldn't have to talk her into what she's supposed to do anyway."

The look on the simp's face was priceless.
 
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